Ex redpill but still afraid of women because of my height

VigilanteJusticia · 2022-12-11T21:11:02+00:00

Maybe it’s a country thing but at 174cm or 5’8” you’re not even short. That average height in the USA. So anyone who says that you’re short or inadequate for them is just a terrible person and it’s good that they screen themselves for you. It’s still not great to hear being belittled for that so I understand how you feel. I’m also the same height.

What do you find difficulty with?

2022-12-11T20:40:04+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through that. One of my old lovers was that exact height and I never once had an issue with it (I'm 162.5 cm). He was still just as loving, fun to kiss, sex was still good... I don't think decent women care as much as Red Pill likes to claim. If you're facing that issue, then that's a good way to reject that woman for unrealistic and shallow standards early on. What are they saying? How are they treating you like shit?

domitori3 · 2022-12-11T20:40:32+00:00

but I’m still seen like sh*t by women

And they say this to you, or it's your interpretation? How many times in your life you've been told that you're sh*t?

spiraldinosaur · 2022-12-11T21:34:52+00:00

There will indeed be women who won't find you attractive because of your height. There will also be women who will find you attractive because of your height. Some will love that you've been working out at the gym, some would prefer a chubby/skinny guy.

What makes you think you're seen like shit by women? Which women have said this to you? Or are you just assuming that?

What you should do is remember that all women are different, they all have different tastes, different preferences, and in themselves different personalities and characters. Some women are shitty and will only date guys who pass a certain height/weight/income/whatever. They will be prone to horrible relationships with the same shitty guys who were selling you those red-pill ideas. But lots of women want a guy who is kind, caring, empathetic, funny, fun, and they care way more about these things than his outfit, his weight or his height. Sure, those physical features can help in almost any case, but they are not the measures upon which a good relationship is built.

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jrr6415sun · 2022-12-11T21:59:57+00:00

174 cm is above average height wtf are you talking about

thrownawaytodaysr · 2022-12-11T22:02:52+00:00

I'm 170 cm. Not sure where you reside, but I have done okay for myself.

Title	Ex redpill but still afraid of women because of my height
Author	_JohnDoe96_
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	December 11, 2022 8:20 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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