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Has the Redpill/Blackpill improved your overall happiness?

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2023-01-04T21:07:40+00:00

For me, accepting that the Blackpill/Redpill are real is sort of like realizing one day you'll die. At first you want to fight it and it fills you with...

Antisocial_Nihilist

January 4, 2023

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Title	Has the Redpill/Blackpill improved your overall happiness?
Author	Antisocial_Nihilist
Upvotes	9
Comments	31
Date	January 4, 2023 9:07 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for responding. Understanding these things when it comes to what men value in female partners. Does it make it easier or harder to date and find a partner?

When you say women are useless, do you mean from an building and maintenance aspect? For example building homes, buildings, machines, engineering and maintaining security. Or do you mean completely useless. I'm not sure if you're being hyperbolic or not.

Not sure if you are single or not. If you're not single just ignore this question. Armed with the information you received, do you think you can make yourself more attractive to get a partner?

Now that you have been red pilled.

Do you have more appreciation for men? Feel more empathy towards men? Do you appreciate masculinity more?

I'm sorry for all the questions lol. I'm genuinely curious. I'm just trying to understand RP from a female perspective. Yes, there are female RP content creators. But it's difficult to determine sometimes if they are being genuine or not, because this type of content is booming right now. I think some content creators are just cashing in. So, it's nice to get the perspective of someone who is not motivated by money, attention and entertainment.

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[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Sorry you had to deal with shaming and manipulation. Men tend to be more straight forward and value respect very much. So typically if you're respectful to men, they'll show you respect. And sometimes you have to command respect too. However, how one does that might depend on the walk of life and situations.

I think women have use to society out side of reproduction. Do you think it's possible to change your mind on this view?

And yes, living as a man is tough. Living easy mode only exist when you master hard mode as a man. There is this inherent thing about wanting to be the best. Not feeling like I'm the best but be the best and respecting the hierarchy.

Masculinity can be express in few ways, all of which men value. Which type of masculinity do you value from a woman's perspective.

The Protector - Okay with physical punishment, Aggressive, Imposing, short tempered (more emotional), strong, easily risk their lives for others, sense of justice and Typically not the smartest tool in shead.These are men who work in law enforcement, army, security, engage combat sports and other activities in those fields.

The engineer- Hyper focused on their work, intellectually competitive, values contributing to building an aspect of society, Not very emotional, Not very social, not very brave, very logical, strong stomach and refuses to settle. These men gravitate towards STEM fields. Their social confidence typically come from their careers and achievements. And live live styles associated with being wealthy or doing well.

The technician - These men are great at physically building things, good with their hands, have a sense of fullfilment from fixing and building things. Typically work well with engineers. These men are competent and always love to pass on knowledge of craft. Typically family oriented, not hyper focused on achievements and social credit that comes with that. Loves to stay busy and help others. These guys can get consumed by work, and will neglect family and friends because of this.

The leader- These men have a vision and want to impose it on others. Whether it's to see others do well or rule over others. They also have a strong sense of responsibility for others. Can be charismatic and extremely patient when it comes to grasping power and control. Though most men have this trait, The leader is typically not bound by morals and are willing to sacrifice others realize their dream. A large percentage of leaders and men who fight for powerful positions have personality disorders. The types of disorders dealing with right and wrong, empathy etc.

The free spirit - These guys are typically social butterflies. And are more socially collaborated than the typical man. They can go from rough and dirty. To classy and clean. Some are fine with going in the wild to take pictures or conquer a challenge. While others prefer to socially out maneuver Thier rivals to conquer the challenge. Both of these men value social credit and legacy. They want to be remembered. These men are typically not interested in being tied down emotionally and absolutely love their space.

The Scum- These men are the ones who reveal in the underbelly of society. Extremely street smart. Clever with verbal and physical slight of hand. Very good at gaining trust, but always have their guard up. They are also good at projecting power and control. Doesn't know when to stop. Addicted to the thrill of conquering others using criminal and or violent means. This type man can go from being an emotional hot head, to cold calculating. These men are also the men willing to sacrifice family other to maintain their lifestyles

The Bum- These types of men are the leeches of society. They are typically not interested in any form of growth. Lazy and prefer to do things the easy way. Have a sense of entitlement. These men value their privacy and are mainly interested in being entertained. Want companionship when they are in the mood

Now I know you can't put people in a box. Mainly because we all have a mx of these traits

So are there any rybe you prefer

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[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

I mean that women possess certain traits that they do better than men.

You're right in the sense that women can be superficial and materialistic. However, there is a biological component to that. For example, women love access to resources and value social credit. As in there is a hierarchy. Now I'm not a woman, so how a woman gets to the top is not fully realized to me. But the little I know is that women can be very ruthless. Ruthless men will kill. But ruthless women will literally treat people like garbage for as long as possible, purlonging to suffering being inflicted.

Masculinity is pretty ridged. But when it's grounded in emotionalism and cruelty. You get out of control men, Tyrants and Monsters. And yes, we men definitely have no issue compartmentalizing. Man can for the greater good can work look past his hatred towards another person, and work with them. I've never seen woman do that.

Do you think single moms should give their son to the father once he reaches around 6 years old, so the father can raise him?

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[–]lovestocomment1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Exactly.I have seen men accepting truth and working on it while women just avoid it and that affects her.

There is a lot truth to that. I do find it strange considering women tend to be more socially collaborated than men. For example, if you want an aspect of society to be changed as a man. Get women on your side. They'll protest complain whatever it is. As long as they think there is social empowerment associated with that movement.

Yes,Of course.I am that type of person who don't give a shit if kid say,"I love dad more than mom" or end up looking like dad.In fact I would happily give child custody to dad. I would say my dad treated me better than mom(she is good.It is just dad treated me better without discrimination). Kids do better under single dad compared to single mom since they are more stable and settled.

It's extremely rare to see a woman that has this mindset. I can understand to some extent why it's hard for a lot of women to give the child to their dad to raise at a certain age. For example, one is oxytocin. Oxytocin doesn't just gets produced during sex. It's also produced during childbirth, breast feeding and raising toddlers. And oxytocin being an agent in the bonding process (women are literally wired to love their children), I can see why it's extremely difficult. However, the other reasons like, women being better parents, etc etc are nonsense to me.

The difference between a man raised by both his parents or just dad vs a man raised in a single family house hold are Stark. It's to the point where I can tell a good amount of times whether or not a man grew up with his father. And unfortunately, a majority of men in western society grew up without a dad in the house hold.

Do you think that's part of the reason we live in a gynocentric society? One were men are becoming more feminine while engage in simping and p$#sy worship? Along with high crime rates etc?

[–]Glad-Discount-47611 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I can understand to some extent why it's hard for a lot of women to give the child to their dad to raise at a certain age

I understand too.We are emotional being and grow attached to baby.And going through nine months of pregnancy is hell of work.It is not beautiful,it literally seems like illness and ruin your body and private parts and your attractiveness goes down and now you are useless.I actually don't blame moms who turned out to be bitter and having resentment towards kids.It is time for women to stop thinking they are better parents.

Do you think that's part of the reason we live in a gynocentric society? One were men are becoming more feminine while engage in simping and p$#sy worship? Along with high crime rates etc?

Honestly,I don't know.I am not expert.I do believe feminism/rise of single mom raising is one of reasons.Maybe it is government controlling since they know humans are happiest with families so I guess thats why they try to avoid that and making people to work more or giving them burden.Thats my theory.

[–]lovestocomment1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This was one of the reason why women played hard to get. It was to feel a guy out, to see if he's willing to commit. Because they knew that getting knocked up with no form of commitment or a ring will result in shame, their bodies being ruined and the quality of men will go down.

It's men who funded and pushed all of it. Men who were hungry for pussy without consequences or responsibility. Those men (some wealthy and married) wanted to explore their options ease too. The sexual revolution only benefited a few men, same with hook up culture. Mainly the wealthy and men doing well benefit though. That's the only reason feminism is still a thing and why you have male feminist.

A former cosmopolitan writer for example spilled the beans on how it was used to spread feminism.

Link to the interview: https://youtu.be/N0jAB4Wd_6Q

The funny thing was the women who was the editor and owner at the time wasn't even a feminist. And she would literally encourage writers to make up bullshit stories glorifying shitty behavior that was detrimental to women. And women ate it all up. All funded by powerful men and her greed. And yes, the government played a part in it too.

Do you remember that scene in the first matrix movie "lady in the red dress". Morpheus had to explain who the real enemies were. And they were the most of the people who didn't want to wake up to reality. Mainly dew to being comfortable. So, they'll even work with robots to maintain the status quo. Shit look at Cyphers betrayal and scene when he was eating the steak dinner lol. Many know the truth, but don't care.

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[–]lovestocomment1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

😱 You haven't seen the matrix? Lol.

Well. At 35 it depends on the location and culture to be honest. In this society women have been reduced to being consumer drones. Has the most debt, waste the most money and uses the most resources from the government. Men make more and pay more taxes, but have the least amount social services and help available.

Do you think men should force women to be more productive in society? I find that a lot of women tend to lost and unproductive, unless there is man in their life. Especially women who have fertility issues. The feeling of worthless, useless, despair, neuroticism and nihilism are typically present. I find that sometimes, those women need a strong positive leader male with a strong sense of purpose, to give them purpose. Which helps a lot. What are your thoughts?

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