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Has the Redpill/Blackpill improved your overall happiness?

January 4, 2023
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For me, accepting that the Blackpill/Redpill are real is sort of like realizing one day you'll die. At first you want to fight it and it fills you with despair, but eventually you come to terms with it and appreciate what time and things you have both now and in the future.

Realizing that I lost the gene game made me give up stupid pursuits like dating and contributing to society, and now I have the time and energy to invest in my hobbies and interests of choice.

Although I do feel the Redpill and Blackpill have given me the "burden of knowledge", I do also feel it has liberated me in some sense.

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Title Has the Redpill/Blackpill improved your overall happiness?
Author Antisocial_Nihilist
Upvotes 7
Comments 21
Date January 4, 2023 9:07 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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[–]NotARussianBot1984 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The truth will set you free. But first it will piss you off.

[–]Ambassadior 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

RP improved my inner peace knowing that I wasn't the only one who had these observations. It doesn't make me happy, just more content. Life red pilled me, RP just validated it.

I don't ascribe to blackpill much because this "Gene game" thing seems like self imposed victimization. But I totally can understand it not being worth the effort because the odds are against you, and the "reward" isn't of enough value to justify it.

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, being black pilled has made me happier. I know there is no point worrying about certain things and I can now focus on things that are in my control

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Just amusing remarks. I knew it all before any "pill" became popular.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I knew it all before any "pill" became popular.

What things you already knew before?

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

All redpill stuff. With thin blackpill "but she doesn't want to fuck you because you're don't make her wet, you're ugly".

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You mean you learnt red or black ,white pill in imageboard before it got popular?

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure. I changed comment.

There are books about it. Millenials aren't first who have romantic problems. All books were written in redpill dogmas aka caveman way. And it sill works in some areas where women should choose "good fuck" or "future and family". Sometimes parents force such values with "He'll pump and dump you, you just another meat hole for him, think of your future children, look at your friends' bad examples" and "look at that guy, he's not hot, but he has job, calm and smart, from good family, he won't leave you for another woman". So that was EXTREMELY popular in fucked up economic situation.

[–]Libah05 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I had a relatively low succes rate with dating, but then again I was morbidly obese. I didn’t know the importance of the way you look not only in dating but in life. Losing weight has been the best decision I’ve made in my life and I’m reaping the rewards of it (although I still have some to lose).

I only want to date attractive women, but I for some reason didn’t think that was the case for women. I was gaslit into believing personality mattered a lot more for men which I subsequently learned wasn’t the case. It is what it is.

Now I’m a lot happier having realised the importance of looks.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (19 children) | Copy Link

Oh geez Happiness? Well no lol.

But after taking redpill,I felt bit free knowing truth and I stopped worrying about things I cant control. At first it made me depressed and go through anger phase(I am still dealing with it) but I came to accept reality.

[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point  (18 children) | Copy Link

If you don't mind me asking What is the reality that you see after taking the red pill, in relation to dating, relationships and what men an women value?

It seems red pill rage is just comes with having your eyes open. But please share, what do you see?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Well, I actually wasn't aware how feminine qualities attract men.So red pill made me realise it.I understood the wall concept.I understood why women are useless while men are actually hardworking human beings

[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point  (16 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for responding. Understanding these things when it comes to what men value in female partners. Does it make it easier or harder to date and find a partner?

When you say women are useless, do you mean from an building and maintenance aspect? For example building homes, buildings, machines, engineering and maintaining security. Or do you mean completely useless. I'm not sure if you're being hyperbolic or not.

Not sure if you are single or not. If you're not single just ignore this question. Armed with the information you received, do you think you can make yourself more attractive to get a partner?

Now that you have been red pilled.

Do you have more appreciation for men? Feel more empathy towards men? Do you appreciate masculinity more?

I'm sorry for all the questions lol. I'm genuinely curious. I'm just trying to understand RP from a female perspective. Yes, there are female RP content creators. But it's difficult to determine sometimes if they are being genuine or not, because this type of content is booming right now. I think some content creators are just cashing in. So, it's nice to get the perspective of someone who is not motivated by money, attention and entertainment.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

When you say women are useless, do you mean from an building and maintenance aspect? For example building homes, buildings, machines, engineering and maintaining security. Or do you mean completely useless. I'm not sure if you're being hyperbolic or not.

This is my belief.Completely useless

Do you have more appreciation for men? Feel more empathy towards men? Do you appreciate masculinity more?

Yes.I had before too but after red pill I started appreciating more.

[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy Link

Gotcha, thanks for clarifying. With this knowledge and the conclusion you came to (women are useless). How does that make you feel as a woman? Do you want to be useful?

What are some of the things you now appreciate about men, that you didn't before being Red Pilled?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

. How does that make you feel as a woman? Do you want to be useful?

Stupid and ashamed.I feel bad that I can't do anything that contribute to society.Of course I do want to be useful but that's impossible.

What are some of the things you now appreciate about men, that you didn't before being Red Pilled

Honestly,I already used to appreciate them since they are logical and upfront and I don't have good experience with women since they manipulate very much and lies.

I have been shamed more by women then men.

But after redpill,I realised how living as man is not easy as they don't live life in easy mode.Being competitive and trying to achieve more.Thats hard.

[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy Link

Sorry you had to deal with shaming and manipulation. Men tend to be more straight forward and value respect very much. So typically if you're respectful to men, they'll show you respect. And sometimes you have to command respect too. However, how one does that might depend on the walk of life and situations.

I think women have use to society out side of reproduction. Do you think it's possible to change your mind on this view?

And yes, living as a man is tough. Living easy mode only exist when you master hard mode as a man. There is this inherent thing about wanting to be the best. Not feeling like I'm the best but be the best and respecting the hierarchy.

Masculinity can be express in few ways, all of which men value. Which type of masculinity do you value from a woman's perspective.

The Protector - Okay with physical punishment, Aggressive, Imposing, short tempered (more emotional), strong, easily risk their lives for others, sense of justice and Typically not the smartest tool in shead.These are men who work in law enforcement, army, security, engage combat sports and other activities in those fields.

The engineer- Hyper focused on their work, intellectually competitive, values contributing to building an aspect of society, Not very emotional, Not very social, not very brave, very logical, strong stomach and refuses to settle. These men gravitate towards STEM fields. Their social confidence typically come from their careers and achievements. And live live styles associated with being wealthy or doing well.

The technician - These men are great at physically building things, good with their hands, have a sense of fullfilment from fixing and building things. Typically work well with engineers. These men are competent and always love to pass on knowledge of craft. Typically family oriented, not hyper focused on achievements and social credit that comes with that. Loves to stay busy and help others. These guys can get consumed by work, and will neglect family and friends because of this.

The leader- These men have a vision and want to impose it on others. Whether it's to see others do well or rule over others. They also have a strong sense of responsibility for others. Can be charismatic and extremely patient when it comes to grasping power and control. Though most men have this trait, The leader is typically not bound by morals and are willing to sacrifice others realize their dream. A large percentage of leaders and men who fight for powerful positions have personality disorders. The types of disorders dealing with right and wrong, empathy etc.

The free spirit - These guys are typically social butterflies. And are more socially collaborated than the typical man. They can go from rough and dirty. To classy and clean. Some are fine with going in the wild to take pictures or conquer a challenge. While others prefer to socially out maneuver Thier rivals to conquer the challenge. Both of these men value social credit and legacy. They want to be remembered. These men are typically not interested in being tied down emotionally and absolutely love their space.

The Scum- These men are the ones who reveal in the underbelly of society. Extremely street smart. Clever with verbal and physical slight of hand. Very good at gaining trust, but always have their guard up. They are also good at projecting power and control. Doesn't know when to stop. Addicted to the thrill of conquering others using criminal and or violent means. This type man can go from being an emotional hot head, to cold calculating. These men are also the men willing to sacrifice family other to maintain their lifestyles

The Bum- These types of men are the leeches of society. They are typically not interested in any form of growth. Lazy and prefer to do things the easy way. Have a sense of entitlement. These men value their privacy and are mainly interested in being entertained. Want companionship when they are in the mood

Now I know you can't put people in a box. Mainly because we all have a mx of these traits

So are there any rybe you prefer

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

>I think women have use to society out side of reproduction.

What you mean?

>Do you think it's possible to change your mind on this view?

Never.I just see women as kind of superficial (I know I am exaggerating).It is just I see femininity as very superficial where masculinity seems so more defined.

>Which type of masculinity do you value from a woman's perspective.

Thats hard choice lol. Top four in lists seems to align with masculinity.

I see masculinitiy as linear and rigid energy,driven by purpose,goal orineted without feeling. So I see it like compartmentalism and focuses on one thing at time.

[–]lovestocomment 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

I mean that women possess certain traits that they do better than men.

You're right in the sense that women can be superficial and materialistic. However, there is a biological component to that. For example, women love access to resources and value social credit. As in there is a hierarchy. Now I'm not a woman, so how a woman gets to the top is not fully realized to me. But the little I know is that women can be very ruthless. Ruthless men will kill. But ruthless women will literally treat people like garbage for as long as possible, purlonging to suffering being inflicted.

Masculinity is pretty ridged. But when it's grounded in emotionalism and cruelty. You get out of control men, Tyrants and Monsters. And yes, we men definitely have no issue compartmentalizing. Man can for the greater good can work look past his hatred towards another person, and work with them. I've never seen woman do that.

Do you think single moms should give their son to the father once he reaches around 6 years old, so the father can raise him?

[–]orbstnedifnocdesab 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

blackpill too pessimistic redpill too optimistic

[–]_blud_Red AF 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

RP is just a source of inner peace I can fall back on when I don't trust my own feelings.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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