The majority of the men who complain about 'loneliness' and lack of success in dating should simply stop searching for love and focus on something else.

zastale · 2023-01-03T22:18:10+00:00

Many already want to do so. The problem is biology telling you to go find something to fuck, constantly. Could you imagine the progress mankind would’ve made had men not spent so much time worrying about pleasing/wooing women? Imagine if every man was like Isaac Newton focused on his purpose, but not to the extent that he forgoes reproducing.

It’s the issue of a starving man: he can only think about food. It’s literally a part of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs; sure, Maslow wasn’t some omnipotent being that knows it all, but people who aren’t familiar with his concept still know the hole of intimacy in their lives.

I honestly found it difficult in university to focus on my studies because my brain would randomly say “go find a girl to fuck” and distract me. If there was a way to shut off the “I need a girl” part of the brain without the severe symptoms of chemical castration, I genuinely think many men would do it.

Fit-Faithlessness149 · 2023-01-04T01:35:44+00:00

If a sizable enough portion of men are not getting their needs met then this is a societal problem. The only people that will endeavor to fix this problem of the people who feel frustration and pain from the problem. If it becomes big enough it will become a political driving force. It may lead to societal change or it may lead to societal violence. Being able to have loving relationships gives you a buy-in into society. Without that you are essentially external of society and thus have no use for society and are more likely to work towards the destruction of that society.

HateSpeechFanBoy · 2023-01-03T23:01:25+00:00

I agree partially but I really think those men should embrace the dark side of the force and embrace anger and hatred.

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2023-01-03T22:23:38+00:00

That's something a lot of us already do, but biology (and society) constantly nags at us telling us we are genetic failures if we cannot find a mate and have offspring.

revente · 2023-01-04T02:38:05+00:00

Except that it's not their rational though that wants women, but one of the strongest drives shared among all living beings.

Best_Illustrator_137 · 2023-01-03T22:18:39+00:00

Lol what..? Everyone’s a slave to their biology and men aren’t an exception..saying “just be celibate” is the most loser thing you could tell a man..improving himself so those things come more naturally (not to be confused with doing it to get women) but making yourself better will lead to more opportunities..everyone wants companionship and relationships..telling someone to just ignore half the population is the dumbest thing I’ve ever read on this sub..improve your odds not go “black pill”

FortniteAbobus · 2023-01-04T06:37:18+00:00

genuinely

Hans, get ze gas

OsazeBacchus · 2023-01-05T18:06:45+00:00

Dunno why they're booing you, you're right there are better things to spend energy on than women who find you unattractive

Acearl · 2023-01-07T19:58:41+00:00

You make it sound so easy. But only escorts selling the GFE can compare to the joy a woman can create to me and other men.

I focus on other things because they are interesting to me. But only a single woman ever wanted to hear me talk about them.

So many adult men have a desire to provide and protect. And frequently have nothing to do that with. This lack of fulfilment is what frequently causes depression.

Women have such high selection pressure on choosing partners, it makes a vast majority of men unsuitable for them. I gave up trying to "fix" myself accepting there is nothing I could do to match the qualities they want.

I didnt make the rules. I just follow them. I have considered finding a wife in Africa or the East. Where I might have better chances

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