I am a late 20's moderate to high earning guy who looks fairly nerd. I have glasses, which for some reason, girls IMMEDIATELY think im a nerd. I live in NYC and I am fairly social, although a bit more introverted, but im not socially awkward at all.

I have had sex with around 60 women, all races, body types etc. For the most part my hookups havent really had a main type, but more of a main body type, not fat, fairly fit, a few exceptions.

I have trouble figuring out whether or not im attractive or the power is in the numbers game of living in NYC...

Basically matching on the apps either goes 1 of 2 ways:

Girls are immediately turned off because I look "Nerdy". I swear to you most times it just my face, its my glasses. I have a straight smile, hairs okay, but I think some girls see glasses and a slim looking guy and think nerd.

OR

Girls generally are into me, and they are pretty damn hot.

I have hooked up with girls who were models, rich, poor, highly successful, motivated etc.

I just dont understand how some women seem so so SO put off by me, yet other extremely hot women are so into me. Its like I exist on both ends of the extreme for women.

Asian women seem to appreciate me as a slim, highly education, less masculine looking man. Black women not a chance in hell they even remotely take me seriously or understand me, I have found black women almost talk to me in a mocking tone. White women are fairly hard, I have dated 3 of them though. Hispanic women are neutral, of course there are so many more!

I am just wondering how other "nerdy" dudes feel. Do you have similar experiences? I dont think im ugly, I have had quite a bit of sex and great long term relationships, its just weird.