https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ub8vyr/sometimes_the_best_one_can_do_is_to_abstain_from/

This is a post by a guy who has decided to have no contact with women.

https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/teaxig/does_anyone_else_no_longer_want_marriagekids/

This is a post about a woman thinking of not being with a man.

You know the difference? Both posts have advices trying to persuade them but the man's post is berated and insulted multiple times, while in the woman's post some have agreed and even encouraged her that her thinking isn't wrong. I see. So a man trying to get away from any of it is bad but if a woman tries that it's empowering? The only person telling the man that he does the same and another person pointing out the hypocrisy are downvoted.