Really their opinions don't matter. I stopped letting what they say bother me when I realized most of it was just driven by blind emotions and mood swings and no actual coherent logic. Legitimately just look into the great amount of men who are great philosophers who've had wide discussions on multiple subjects then compare them to the majority of women who spend most of their time gossiping. THIS IS WHAT YOU'RE LETTING BOTHER YOU. Most women's opinion at least imo simply don't matter. They're just driven by their lust for attractive men then their mood swings influence them to rage at inkwells online. Just ignore them I say.