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What's the Matter with Men? - The New Yorker

shishkebab311

January 23, 2023
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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/01/30/whats-the-matter-with-men
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Title What's the Matter with Men? - The New Yorker
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shishkebab311

Upvotes 16
Comments 32
Date January 23, 2023 10:02 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10jowgl/whats_the_matter_with_men_the_new_yorker/
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NYT actively blaming men for not being good enough

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[–]ConferenceCreative35 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Decent article that attempts to view both sides but, in my opinion, falls short. There is no actual realization of the negative effects of feminism on men in western society and, without doing so, attempts to grasp at straws to explain certain variables.

For example, reduced availability of jobs and stagnating wages was caused by introduction of a large population into the workforce (women entering during wartime). While it isn’t a negative to see women join the labor force, it is a negative for everyone due to the stagnating wages mentioned earlier.

One more thing I noticed is when addressing the childhood education showing boys falling behind. There is no attempt to investigate the curriculum and how the schools are ran. Not to mention the gender bias that has been reported in other western countries.

For things like schooling there are more initiatives and opportunities provided specifically to women than there are for men. This is part of the reason why women make up a larger percent of bachelor degree and masters degree recipients.

As for the portion referencing men seeing themselves as demigods in comparison to women. I believe this has to do with the social notion that women are “pure” and “innocent”. By taking this view, it destroys any notion that women can do something bad. This then follows along to promote women who commit perjury and waste police resources not getting charged or getting a slap on the wrist relative to what a man would get.

For the section that discusses men retaining positions of power, it focuses mainly on the gender of the one in power rather than the economic status. It is well known that those with money have much more power regardless of race and sex when compared to those from middle or lower classes. While it has been predominantly male-dominated, at this point it is more a factor about capital that is able to be relinquished to gain positions of power as well as nepotism being rampant.

While this article does identify and realize that men have their own set of problems that they face, it refuses to acknowledge across all arguments that an aspect of it can be related to a privilege assigned to women as well as ideology from the feminist movement that has influenced both policy and social outlook.

[–]shishkebab311[S] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

These are a lot of great points. While no one piece of writing is ever complete, it is great that some of these issues are conveyed and there is clearly a lot of room for improvement

[–]ConferenceCreative35 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

First and hardest step is to get the problems acknowledged, and I’m glad to say this piece has gotten there

[–]kongeriket 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

While it isn’t a negative to see women join the labor force

Why?

Besides, women had been in the workforce before too. Just a lot fewer of them.

I'm curious of the reason(s) for which you simply assume it isn't a negative to see women join the labor force. I'm not convinced.

[–]ConferenceCreative35 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I understand your confusion, I realize I didn’t make my stance clear enough. I see it as a good thing for women to be able to join the labor force on their own accord. I believe that if someone wants to work they should be able to. This was helpful during the wars of course while men were away someone needed to run the factories and stores and such. On a rights level it is good.

On an economic level, however, it has had lasting negative effects on wages and on families. That’s without even mentioning the costs to the social sphere in the US. Due to the large influx of labor, wages have been able to stagnate and essentially not change, requiring two full time people in a household if they neither are making a substantial amount of money.

As for the social sphere, This has put a lot of strain on the nuclear family and with the normalization of no-fault divorce, has led to the extremely high divorce rates we see today. This has also created the “girl boss” mentality which puts family second and career first but leads to middle aged women who are markedly sadder overall than their counterparts who focused on family. It has also caused a huge uptick in both male and female loneliness, with male loneliness being higher.

While I think the repercussions for pushing most women into the work force is a negative, I do think that it is a positive that they have the ability to work decent paying jobs and in higher positions if they put in the effort.

[–]WhereProgressIsMade 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Reeves writes. “Suddenly, working for gender equality means focusing on boys rather than girls.”

Well, I can agree with this part at least. Reeves idea to require boys to start kindergarten a year later is a bunch of crap though. Starting later, means graduating later, which means one less year of our working years before we're too old to work or want to retire.

Hawley ... argued that the solution must begin with “repudiating the lie that America is systemically oppressive and men are systematically responsible,”

I'm surprised a liberal place like the New Yorker would print that, especially without immediately dismissing it or hand waving it away.

[–]shishkebab311[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You'd be surprised what kind of conservative writing is published in liberal outlets and vice versa. I read a lot of both the NYT and the WSJ and while they may not represent every other media outlet, there's enough diversity of thought. Maybe not the opinion sections. Although the NYT has a pretty consistent column with a republican turned democrat who is basically still a republican in many ways.

[–]rationalguyforsure 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Who, David Brooks?! Good grief he’s a libtard.

[–]shishkebab311[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Calling people "libtards" says more about you than anything

[–]rationalguyforsure 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mea culpa. I really need to be more circumspect. What I should have said is that American liberals are the worst human beings ever to walk the earth. “Libtard” is just rude, as you noted.

[–]Early-Department-234 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

We have some idea of why blue-collar wages have stagnated: a macroeconomic shift that greatly raised the value of a college degree, owing in part to the decimation of manual labor by automation and globalization.

Feminists on campus are trying to chase away young men from universities across Canada. The Big Red activism is a danger to young men on campus.

[–]shishkebab311[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Lmao what? I think that's a bit overblown... As someone on college campuses for the last 12 years (current PhD candidate) in small public, large public, and a medium sized private university, I have never experienced this. That is most definitely not the norm

[–]Greg_W_Allan 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You're a student. You're never lived or operated in the world outside educational institutions. I'm in the tax/finance world. We are no longer hiring graduates because we have found over time they can't do the work. Heads full of shite and abysmal communication skills.

[–]shishkebab311[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I work as a full time consultant on top of my PhD. I also worked for two years between my masters and PhD.

But yes, communication going downhill is a trend I'm noticing as a teacher (I have to teach as part of my PhD). I'm not sure what you mean by heads full of shite though, especially for accounting and finance majors

[–]Greg_W_Allan 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Secondly I would recommend you read The War Against Boys by Christina Hoff Summers. My prior experience was in education admin in Australia for over twenty years, much of it during the period Hoff Summers was referencing. Changes to curriculum and methods of delivery predicated on making schools more "girl friendly" shackled boys completely in P-12 education across all English speaking nations. You are a part of that generation. At the time boys were doing OK. Myself and others warned of a grim future for boys and have been proven right.

heads full of shite though, especially for accounting and finance majors

Can't think clearly, no creativity and no communication skills, all the while thinking they're better than others.

[–]Early-Department-234 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So Dr. Janice Fiamengo and Dr. Peterson live in alternative realties then?

[–]shishkebab311[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They can live in whatever realities they want. But victimhood sells. It's easier to say that men are victimized in a university setting and that everyone is trying to cancel them meanwhile they are two very visible media personalities. So it seems like the potential for perverse incentives is there.

All I'm saying is that I've been on college campuses and I haven't experienced a fraction of what these people have talked about. They point to exceptions and pretend those are the norm. It's easy to do that

[–]Early-Department-234 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So Big Red and her minions are CGI generated graphics and they didn't exist at UofT?

[–]Rbebebebdbebe 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, a troll denying misandry! What a surprise!

[–]shit-zen-giggles 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Good article overall 👍

I appreciate that the author reflected Reeves' suggestion of redshirting boys criticly with consideration for the available literature.

Of course there's the jabs against the conservative position and no regard is being payed to the many systemic discriminations introduced by feminist policies, but that's to be expected from a liberal publication such as this.

What surprised me that at least this autor managed to acknowlege and accurately represent the earnings gap as being mostly caused by occupation, motherhood and the decline of the male working class.

[–]shishkebab311[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

There's a large movement in academia surrounding men and masculinities - many of these scholars are taking more nuanced approaches as evidenced here. The problem is that sensationalist nonsense will grab more headlines than comprehensive analysis

[–]kongeriket 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There's a large movement in academia surrounding men and masculinities

Yeah, that's terrifying news and as far away from good news as it can possibly be.

With the Academe skewing from far-Left to Maoism, it's terrible news for men that individuals in the academe are concerned with men qua men. The very term "masculinities" is, for all intends and purposes, disdainful bullshit.

[–]shishkebab311[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think that's a very narrow view of the world. Especially your view on academe in general, which seems extremely biased.

[–]kongeriket 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think that's a very narrow view of the world

No, quite the opposite. It's a very wide view of the world. By regarding the Academe for what it is - a minuscule, marginal circle of peddlers of disdainful bullshit - and recognizing that the world is far broader than what the marginal peddlers of bullshit say it is, I am in fact promoting the opposite of a narrow view of the world.

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Especially your view on academe in general, which seems extremely biased.

Just because it's biased, it doesn't mean it's wrong.

Considering how extremist and dangerous the Academe really is, I will argue that it hasn't been treated wit enough negative bias. Any member of the Academe should be presumed of evil intent, of dubious moral character and the enemy of all that's right and beautiful until proven otherwise. Statistically, it's a very fair assumption. Anything less than that would be biased.

[–]shit-zen-giggles 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And the people who grab headlines also grab funding in my experience

[+]dubious_unicorn -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Hey, speaking of masculinity discussions in academia, why'd your RW Connell post and all your comments there disappear?

[–]shit-zen-giggles 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You were right. I read something into it that wasn't there, so I deleted it.

[+]dubious_unicorn -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad you reconsidered.

[–]noserotonyn 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

There is a historical passage in which a Roman commander who was sent to conquer a Greek city, did not find any resistance, quite the contrary, he was received as a savior by men who were tired of the social dynamics they were living.

And thats reminds me of a quote: "Every feminized civilization will be conquered by one that is not."

i believe we are going to see more and more support for male issues from now on because the American military industry fathomed the lack of motivation that American men are about dying for them.

and no article that deals with men issues is really empathetic to men quoting Simone de Plagiauvoir in the whole thing. Just saying the obvious.

[–]shishkebab311[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well Simone wrote at a very different time for the feminist movement. So it seems extreme based on today's standards, understandably.

I am curious about that quote you mentioned though since even masculine empires have fallen prey to other masculine empires historically. I wouldn't consider the British empire feminized in 1776 and yet, a fledgling America gained their independence from it. Perhaps these are the rules rather than the exception, but it's difficult to pin down what makes a feminized civilization and often when I hear people say things like that they conveniently overlook any masculine aspects of that society

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You seem like an intelligent feminist. Why do you troll here? Wouldn't you be happier at TwoX?

[–]shishkebab311[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah yes, the true way to make camaraderie is to alienate those who don't 1000% agree with you.

I can be for men's rights without using terms like "feminist" as an insult.

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