Hypocrites?

H42 · 2017-10-02T01:30:04+00:00

The metric is easy vs difficult.

Women have it easy when they want sex. Seriously, how difficult is is for 80% o women to get laid?

Men, 80-90%, must plan, work, take risk, face countless rejections to get laid. It is difficult.

There is your answer.

moorekom · 2017-10-01T13:58:13+00:00

You're comparing apples and oranges. Men's biological objective is to fuck as many as possible to spread the seeds. Women's biological objective is to find one guy to bear children and ensure future safety. Inability to do so in both, society considers them to be defective. That's why studs are lauded and sluts are detested. If she had to go through that many men and still couldn't find one guy then that means she is defective.

covertpenguin3390 · 2017-10-01T14:06:18+00:00

Bill burr explains it in my favorite way... it's like trying a cake, as a man, you're just sticking your finger in cakes. Isn't really that gross at all. But imagine as a girl having to take that cake and shove it up your vagina every time. He says it way funnier than me but I think you get the point. But really, since men have been the ones in control for so long in history that I'm guessing that's primarily how this view has been going along for so long and is in every culture out there. Is it a double standard? Yes, of course it is, is it a fair one? Who cares, it's your own personal opinion and taste on if you care about your partners count or not. People on here claim that girls can't pair bond after they have sex with too many guys, but I think that's kind of stupid, it's more of just a pattern that she doesn't like to commit/is easy/a slut. Whenever I see a girl date a slut of a guy, I view them as missing the same red flags that guys do when they date a slut girl. You're dating someone who doesn't like to just commit to one person/isn't satisfied by it, how do you expect that relationship to be monogamous??

I personally take every girls count on an individual basis. If she's 28 and has a count under 10, she's a saint as far as I'm concerned, but that same under 10 rule doesn't apply if she's 22. Doesn't mean I won't still casually date them if they're over what I think is acceptable but I won't put much effort or emotion into them.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-10-01T15:19:13+00:00

First, men don't hate sluts. Most guys love sluts, they just aren't going to marry an emotionally broken jizz hound who can't pair bond. You can't turn a whore into a housewife.

There's a reason it's called the "Thousand Cock State" and not the "Thousand Cunt Stare".

Westernhagen · 2017-10-01T14:19:34+00:00

It is not hypocrisy because men and women are not identical.

Renzotl56 · 2017-10-01T15:11:02+00:00

A key that opens all locks, is a master key.

A lock that gets opened by any key, is a shitty lock.

Rian_Stone · 2017-10-01T16:13:01+00:00

So?

GreenPiller · 2017-10-01T15:18:35+00:00

Women become damaged when they sleep around, pair bonding is real. I know a lot of women that went this route and they are all fucked up.

RPShitlord · 2017-10-01T17:11:20+00:00

It's not hate. It's a dualistic mating strategy. Women sleep around while young and look for a provider when older.

We kinda have the same thing. We date but not commit while we get older and better (women are the opposite when it comes to aging). But when we commit at 40, it won't be to a 40 year old.

So a single woman of any age will need to compete with 18 year olds to have a chance of getting a successful man (wedding, not bedding).

complexcassandra1 · 2017-10-01T13:57:14+00:00

yeah its called double standards

Title	Hypocrites?
Author	Batmansiphone
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	October 1, 2017 1:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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