I don't want people in my personal life except a girl

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-10-02T07:26:59+00:00

So I'm guessing that you are young. What you may run into is that the way to develop the experience to successfully manage your relationship with your "one special girl" - and really, there is no "one special girl" - is to go out and have relationships with...wait for it...other women. Developing skills is a process, and takes practice.

That said, a couple of notes:

A. To do what you want to do, you are going to have more success with introverted girls. Not at first, necessarily, but in the long run.

B. Guys who try to use Red Pill Tools to fulfill their blue pill goals often run into trouble. One of the problem that guys have, generally, is that they get into an LTR or marriage with their "one special girl" and think that they've crossed the finish line; they haven't. The difficult part is just beginning.

Good luck.

vandaalen · 2017-10-02T06:38:19+00:00

http://archive.is/yxzC1

Bear-With-Bit · 2017-10-02T13:01:24+00:00

I came across trp in my mid 30s while going thru a divorce. I didn't lose money nor did I have kids with my ex-- It was a very short marriage, less than a year. However my time with her was the only cohabit-LTR I ever had. Essentially I essentially dodged a whole wall of bullets.

The things I've learned living with a woman:

It's fun in the beginning. But after about 3 to 6 months, the fun goes down.
Sex and drama have an inverse relationship. In the beginning, there was a lot of sex and very little drama. Even if there was drama, there would be makeup sex afterward. As time passed the sex was less frequent and less passionate. Drama increased to a point of numbness and complete relational failure.
Once I was done with my ex and discovered TRP I realized I didn't want to live with a woman again. I had a taste and that was it for me.

My ex was shy and introvert. She rarely posted on social media, she was doing well in her career, and has hobbies she enjoys. She doesn't go out much but when she does, she would enjoy herself. We had good times.

But hypergamy is a bitch. It affects us all.

OP, I feel you haven't been through something like this yet. I almost want to say: forget everything you've read here, go out and find your special snowflake to fall in love with, deal with the bullshit called love, and then come back here years later. Nothing we can say will change your mind. You have to experience it yourself.

MrAgamemnon · 2017-10-02T07:14:24+00:00

I want intimacy and sex. To get that, I need one girl. Not 2, or more. I want to share my personal life. By sharing my life, I don't mean talking.

There is no sharing your life, there is no Disney fairytale. No one on this planet will make you "complete".

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-10-02T06:42:54+00:00

What a controlled little world you want

they quit dating out of disgust or emptiness.

They lack a mission. 100 women and they start to get that women can't fill in the empty hole in their emotions.

build bond with girls.

A faggot rationalization. They don't want to fix themselves; they want others to do it for them because they can't.

who are having a good life?

No. Fear is the mind killer. And no, let me ask you something. Why don't you want a full human experience?

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-10-02T13:09:41+00:00

The slut definition is awalt. And dude... Grow up. Take the fantasy glasses off. To get The girlfriend you need to have first 100 girlfriends. And to be with 100 girlfriends you first need a girlfriend.

All that you think you want is all pseudo profound bullshit. Womans Love is scisophrenia. Wake up.

CC_ee · 2017-10-02T18:36:35+00:00

Your own experience/wishes/whatever > anything anybody in the whole fucking world has to say to you.

Title	I don't want people in my personal life except a girl
Author	losemyshit0
Upvotes	11
Comments	11
Date	October 2, 2017 6:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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