Edit: I got the answer I was looking for within minutes in this post, here. Would have worked in this situation (we were practically fucking in the streets). Thanks!

Original question:

So if a girl doesn't want you to come up after walking you all the way to her house (without saying this is where she was walking to) and you're making out with her but she says she doesn't want you to come up - is this real? What are you expected to do in this situation? What I actually did was try a couple of times, and she said things like that she's never brought anyone home on a first date (but then why did she walk me to her home), and then I eventually said, okay, and left and went home. I think she expected me to do something further, but, what exactly? What will you do in this situation?

We've built a pretty good connection over a week of communication. of course, it is possible this relationship will become something more serious and she'll see me again and want more.

I asked and got approval for everything we were doing outside (as I don't want to be rapey) but it felt awkward to be practically having sex outside. She lived alone and there aren't logistical issues.

thanks.