I've been texting some girl I met last week. I think I've made the mistake to not keep it logistics. We texted on and off for like 4 days. But, as soon as I even mentioned an irl meet up she ghosted. My bro said I should've texted her more to "warm her up to you" for a few more weeks. I think that's stupid and a waste of time. Should I reach out again in like another week or so? Or just delete and ghost?

Next I'll get a tinder match. And suggest a date idea for the weekend or so. 9/10 they are very enthusiastic about it. Then ghost forever after agreeing to it. Now this is light rapport build into pure logistics. What exactly am I doing wrong?

These results happen too often. I'm thinking about straight monk mode. No bars or clubs. To fix my errors. Is it as simple as "your SMV is low"