Hey guys, maybe you have some ideas how to improve my game.
I am in an open relationship with A since 10 months and we recently decided we want to fool around with another girl. So we both registered as Tinder and got decent results. She has some couples pics and identifies as lesbian. I use only pics of me.
The story is about a girl B that I matched and which I connected rather well with. Turns out she is bi and my girl matched her as well but to my knowledge they were just making a bit fun about the double match and not much more convo.
Then we had our first date which was first exclusively me and B. I however told her beforehand that A might come around later as well. We connected as well IRL and I made out with her after one hour. It took some time as she was a bit cold in the beginning. soon after that A came as well. In the first minutes the situation was awkward and we needed to reassemble each other but basically after another 10 min I was making out with B and B with A. Everything fine so far. A is one level above B regarding attractiveness. My first mistake was that I did not let A comfort B enough (they just met and basically never talked, made out after 10 min and we left the place after another 10 min.) and I didn't comfort A enough which turned out to be not really harmful.
The next step was to get us home to her. I organized that we meet close to her apartment and I directly told her that she should show us her flat. There was always some power struggle/shit testing from her side. Although my game is far from perfect it seems I managed her well and I could feel how her empowered strong independent female facade melted. So I took both girls under my arm and we went to B's apartment.
We went into her apartment (she lives alone) and we get the classic 'we are not going to have sex tonight'. It was almost ridiculous that she takes two tinder strangers she made out with on the first date home and brings up this classic LMR. A is game-aware as well. She almost chuckled at this.
The first one is easy to break. Just kissing her, making out, less talk more action. I am no expert in LMR breaking but being fun and energetic always worked so far. A bit push pull, one step back two steps forward. I know the basics. I carry her around and put her on her couch. Now something remarkable happened: A had some speakers with her and turned them on playing her playlist. Now it felt like we are professionals fucking all weak girls on this planet. B instantly stiffens. I was really surprised as well. Me, A, and B were making fun about the speakers but I could feel that B was off.
She left us soon alone. I gave her some time and then followed her. Now it was me and B alone. I could clearly feel her desire. We made out alone and she was telling me that she can not have sex with us because she is on her period. I just told her to take a shower and join us afterwards if that is the only problem. She somehow melted again and I took her back to A. We made out again but B was still not really invested. She said stuff like "I'd really like to fuck but I can't. Can we do this on the next weekend instead?". Sometimes her LMR increased sometimes it decreased. She made out with A again and they removed some layers of clothing. But in the next moment she sits upright again. I could clearly see that I will lose if I continue like that.
So I told her that I need her help. She has to tuck A's hands down while I am fucking A. She played joyfully along and I brought A to an orgasm. That was however still not enough and I gave up. We were already 2 hours into foreplay and she still had some of her clothes on. A sucked me a bit but that was not my intention for the evening.
We put our clothes on and kissed a bit each other. We made plans to meet again in an unforeseeable future. As always I texted her after 30 min telling her that I enjoyed the evening. She answered the same.
Possible problems:
- A and B are SMV wise not equal. A has a special status. B can never reach that status. It's a lost game for her.
- A did not comfort B. They were strangers and I forced them to have sex.
- A and me did not appear to be joyful but controlling, planning, and determined. B felt objectified.
This was my first threesome and also the first time I couldn't break through LMR although I was already in her flat.
Do you have any input or ideas how to improve?
Probably next trial this weekend with a match of my girl.
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