We went to the same high school and starting hooking up after both of our best friends got married. We knew each other in high school as I used to hookup with her best friend. When we first started fucking she constantly made the six round hour trip to hookup, staying over for the weekend if I wanted. We were in college when we met so I'm assuming there's a lot of D closer than three hours.
She goes out of her way to see me constantly, like New Years Eve where she was working a dinner, made an hour drive to spend time with me for just two hours and then made an hour drive back to work because she had to serve brunch. She buys me things. She comes to work events if I need a date. She cooks for me every time she is over. She cleans my apartment and does my laundry. Will do anything I ask of her.
Shes unlike any girl I have met before. We've been seeing each other for 11 months. I've NEVER gotten along better with a girl. All of the petty shit and attention whoring isn't there. She is also the most intelligent girl I have dated, although I tend to gravitate towards idiots. She also very funny for a female.
She tells me she is in love with me and when we are apart constantly calls/texts me.
She says she wants marriage and a family with me...
I will be moving out of state soon for a job and more school and she has mentioned that she would like to come with me.
But...
She has a high partner count, (me too..) has been in multiple long term relationships looking for a long term partner, but, she has picks the same good looking/low IQ/low impulse control type to date. She was honest (could have easily lied) with me and told me ANYTHING I wanted to know about her past. She told me every one of her boyfriends has cheated on her and some hit her and that she has also cheated on these boyfriends in the past because of the cheating abuse and dishonesty (why not just leave? this scares me..).
She believes partying and hookups were things she did in the past because it was fun and meaningless (feel the same way).
You would think a girl like this is bound to have daddy issues but she has a great relationship with both of her parents, I have known them personally for a while.
I check her phone/social media a lot and have never seen any messages/calls from other guys that are sexual in nature, I don't think she is tech literate enough to hide everything from me.
What do I do?
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