Tips/Advice on getting a hooker

jay_jay_man · 2017-11-04T00:47:25+00:00

For all the people shitting on hookers, they have a great use to men. Here's one man's perspective on how hookers changed him.

Not much. I guess it did change my outlook towards women in a good way. I came to have a more balanced view of them and treat them more as simply people. It also got me to having the sex and social lives I wanted instead of gazing from the sidelines and wishing.

It created an abundance mentality; not more crushing for ever on unattainable girls just because they said something to me or whatever.

Demystified sex; sex went from being a near magical thing that happened only when the planets aligned and a woman bestowed upon me access to her heavenly, mystical vagina, into being a a regular form of recreation and emotional release.

Brought pussy down to earth; no more putting girls on pedestals, regardless of how hot they were or how much I wanted to bang them.

Taught me to not waste time getting played by girls who would never bang me but were more than happy to flirt and manipulate to get things out of people.

Got me to stop giving free pussy passes; the only time I give a pussy pass now is for... periods, pregnancy, and parenting. If you're not in any of those, no pussy pass, no matter how much you bat your eyelashes and call me handsome after spending the entire time up until now ignoring my existence.

Made me okay with having fremale friends, because since I wasn't floundering for poon, I could just enjoy their company without trying to think of some way to cash in for cunt.

Taught me that my happiness was far more under my control than previously thought; if something makes you happy, like having sex, find a way to do it and to hell with what people think; they're not you and don't matter.

Made me better in bed by giving me far more practice.

Raised my sexual expectations of women -- flat, bored starfishing coeds and self-professed sluts who couldn't ride a dick even with an instructions manual would no longer sufficed; I made a point of seeking out better fun time partners, and I've been far happier for it, plus I've also taught plenty of girls things I originally discovered with providers.

Opened my eyes to how hypocrisy, biases, and double standards really work. Why is it illegal to trade something for money that you can give away for free? In the past, it was for moral and health concerns, given STD's and need for legitimacy of children. Then it was about protecting families; READ: convincing insecure wives that their men couldn't possibly get their hands on a whore if it ws illegal, and now it's all about protecting women; READ: protecting the feminist pussy cartel and misandrist hate machine by stigmatizing and prohibiting male sexual and behavioral expression that doesn't in some way serve feminist agendas and goals. The reason that sex work is so often illegal throughout eras and areas is because it throws a wrench into the social designs of powerful, popular, and favored groups wherever it goes.

Taught me to have some self-respect. It started out sexually -- no need to debase myself for some girl if I can just get a provider if she doesn't work out. This initial liberation made me a stronger and more confident person who would state opinions, defend and debate them, and not feel threatened or pressured if people didn't like what they heard. This grew into me realizing that I had power and agency as a person. This grew to me demanding and striving for more in what I did and the relationships with people in my life. This came to me realizing I am more or less master of my own destiny within reason. In short, thanks to providers, I am not some dreg on r/incels.

I discovered just how how much of herd animals we are. Opinion comes from person A. Hey, that sounds about right, so that'll be my opinion, too! And that's how societal attitudes form. Society would tell you only a loser pays for sex. The truth is we all pay, one way or another. Could be a few hundred dollars for a limited time rendezvous, or it could be becoming the breadwinner for a household. Either way, that pussy was not free. Society would tell you sex workers are stupid, drugged, abused, trafficked, dirty, and all other sorts of things. The truth is I consider some of the providers I've met to be some of the most interesting and intelligent women I know and had a lot of their shit together. A 22 year old college grad girl starts working. By the time she's 30, she's still in mountains of debt and still in the entry level trenches getting the 5-7 years to get the job to get the 5-7 years to get the good job. Another 22 year old college girl becomes an escort. By age 30, she's been running her own business, paid off her student debts, figured out much of who she is and what she wants, and is running her own game instead of being a rat in someone else's, plus also likely making more money more efficiently than corporate girl.

SirKolbath · 2017-11-03T22:08:49+00:00

Backpage dot com.

AdviceThrowaway43321 · 2017-11-03T22:24:21+00:00

Sex with hookers sucks you probably have this imsge of a chick willing to be super fake into it and down for anything if the price is right. Instead she will awkwardly show up suck you off with a condom on in a robotic way or let you fuck her and lay there like a lazy housewife giving duty sex. Your not attractive throwing money into the equation won't fix shit. Just jerk off and invest that shit on Scottrade when your billionaire move to Dubai and get some Instagram thots to be your sex slaves. Real talk bro

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-03T23:14:46+00:00

How tall are u and how much do u weigh? Just go on backpage.com and look for the Women Seeking Men section. Don't ever spend more than $150 for 1h, no matter if she's an HB45

SpaceTimeinFlux · 2017-11-03T23:13:35+00:00

Save up some cash and buy a doll. It's great practice and almost as good as the real thing. Plus the added benefit of complete control of your sex life while you build up your smv.

If you're as unfuckable as you claim, it can't hurt.

yes_we_can_t · 2017-11-04T02:36:16+00:00

There was a post about it on the main sub a few months ago: /r/TheRedPill/comments/6d5po9/hiring_an_escort_is_like_hiring_any_other_service/

Probably more if you search. There's a subreddit dedicated to it as well, but I don't remember the name. You'll probably get better help there.

Do your research.

Shukakun · 2017-11-04T08:09:58+00:00

No, you don't NEED to fuck, you just really really want to. Get a grip, man. The only one that can take control over your life is you. For anyone else, they have to be willingly given it by you.

Think of it like this. If you can't control your sex drive and will always reach a point where you'd do anything to get pussy, how do you expect any ons/fwb/ltr/wife/whatever you're into to be able to respect you? Doesn't matter what you say, she can literally just spread her legs and you're completely helpless, under the influence of vagina.

That's just pathetic. You're on the right track about the self-improvement, keep reading (and applying). But your mindset needs a major overhaul. Forget the hookers. Get used to being sexless until you genuinely think that you're someone most women would want to fuck (without getting paid).

Iegomyego · 2017-11-04T20:53:04+00:00

If you can afford it take a trip to Tijuana. It blew my mind how cheap it is, how many beautiful women are there and how fun the experience was. Addelitas is the place I went

poop_vomit · 2017-11-04T01:34:08+00:00

MGTOW

Anon241469 · 2017-11-04T02:50:52+00:00

I recommend that you NOT see an escort/hooker unless you have the income to make it a regular thing. Sex is as fundamental to our existence as life itself, so once you start you might find it extremely difficult to stop. If you can’t afford it, you might stay broke for the rest of your life.

Jailhouseredpilled93 · 2017-11-04T00:16:47+00:00

Save your money, get surgery to make your self more physiognomically less offensive, and go slay. It's your only hope of you want to experience sex as it was ment to be: with women who find you attractive. In the mean time, use that energy to increase your wealth so you can make this happen. Jerking off works. I went twenty years without sex and there were bitches in prison that could pass for HB8s all day!

mrpoopistan · 2017-11-04T01:53:53+00:00

Dear hooker posters . . .

Just stop. Please. Just stop.

Title	Tips/Advice on getting a hooker
Author	AdviceThrowaway43321
Upvotes	9
Comments	57
Date	November 3, 2017 9:32 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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