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Husband of sadistic mum who tortured him for years reveals his living nightmare

Kagedeah

March 12, 2023
107 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.hulldailymail.co.uk/news/hull-east-yorkshire-news/husband-sadistic-mum-who-tortured-8241737
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Title Husband of sadistic mum who tortured him for years reveals his living nightmare
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Kagedeah

Upvotes 107
Comments 24
Date March 12, 2023 2:29 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/11pfu5n/husband_of_sadistic_mum_who_tortured_him_for/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/husband-of-sadistic-mum-who-tortured-him-for-years.1176519
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[–]AirSailer 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

'When I have a baby, I'll be happy. I won't mind you working all those hours," Richard continued. "We actually had a phrase for it 'baby dance' and sometimes I had to 'dance' twice a day. If I wasn't physically able, she'd say things like, 'All you've got to do is perform. You're not a man.'

My ex-wife didn't insult me, but I remember when trying to conceive, the sex was terrible. I felt like I was just a semen dispenser, it was so dehumanizing that I didn't even want to touch my wife for many months afterwards. Luckily conception happened within the first month, I can't imagine the pressure of trying for months and being treated like this the entire time.

Also, babies never make women happy or fix marriages.

[–]shit-zen-giggles 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for sharing your experience.

Also, babies never make women happy or fix marriages.

Truer words have seldomly been spoken

[–]Aimless-Nomad 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry to hear that man. Hope you are doing well now.

[–]Ferbuggity 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Also, babies never make women happy or fix marriages.

Thiiiiiis, all day this. How many abused and neglected kids are there, whose mother didn't want a child, just a security blanket or a hook to catch a man?

I can't imagine having mechanical baby-making sex... my one kid was a happy accident after nearly a decade of equally happy child free relationship time... but I would just die inside if a man told me he felt I was treating him that way.

[–]AirSailer 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for your comment. I literally sat in the parking lot of a strip mall after work dreading going home because I would be forced to have sex. Maybe "forced" is a strong word, but my (ex) wife at the time was about to hit 40 so she was determined to have a kid. Of course I loved sex, but there's so much pressure on men to perform that IMO it's almost a perverse incentive to expect a man to make a baby. Of course I would have preferred to make our baby by having fun... So with that said....

I love my kid so much, so I can never tell him about what conception was like for me. As well, I'm not even sure what advice to give him about having a kid these days, so yeah, there's that. But hey, that least we didn't cut part of his dick off like happened to me and so many others, so there's that too.

[–]Ferbuggity 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for your comment. I literally sat in the parking lot of a strip mall after work dreading going home because I would be forced to have sex. Maybe "forced" is a strong word

There's all kinds of force, including emotional.

And hey yours was conceived like that, mine hacked a prophylactic firewall. What really matters is, they're here and we love them.

[–]AirSailer 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, I don't want to transfer my trauma to my kid, so he won't hear what happened to me, from me.

[–]ashterberry 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Remember- feminists in the UK made a concerted effort to push for gendered domestic abuse legislation, and went out of their way to fight against equal recognition/protection for male victims.

[–]phoenician_anarchist 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

sadistic mum

Interesting how they make sure to mention the fact that she's a mother.

Why not "Father who was tortured by sadistic wife for years reveals his living nightmare"?

[–]Aimless-Nomad 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cos media are either feminists or simp cucks who pander to women endlessly.

[–]shit-zen-giggles 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for sharing. Extremely important storry.

Here's the longer original article form the Daily Mail:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11846275/Man-reveals-wore-make-hide-bruises-abuse-norm-marriage.html

[–]blaizken_420 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't explain why I didn't leave

Because divorce court and domestic abuse laws are rigged against men. Who knows how many others suffer in silence like this...

[–]Litmus44 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Another example of toxic femininity. The courts need to impose much tougher sentences.

[–]AdAcademic4290 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

1 in 4 men are being abused.

This is a great case to talk to your friends and check in on them.

Leaving a relationship where you have been abused can be absolutely as difficult for men as women.

This is because it escalates TO violence from a point of isolating and psychologically degrading and gaslighting the victim.

To such a degree that they are conditioned to believe they 'deserve 'it, that it's their own 'fault ', that if only they did x or y, the abuse would stop.

Spoiler...the abuse won't stop. Because abusers gonna abuse.

These are just normal men who have been unfortunate enough to get into relationships that become abusive.

One of the reasons men don't reach out for help is because they are ashamed, and they have been conditioned by their abusers to feel they are not real men.

They are all real men. The abusers are LYING!

UK info

https://www.mankind.org.uk/

https://www.ncdv.org.uk/domestic-violence-against-men/

American info

https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-men-who-are-being-abused.htm

[–]Aimless-Nomad 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He was probably a misogynist and deserved it /s

[–]Monkeattack 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

i dont have time to read that fully but i hope she gets punished very badly

[–]shit-zen-giggles 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

she has already been sentenced to 4 years in prison. And per the new law that was passed recently, she will be registered as a sex offender and thus be subject to special monitoring after release.

[–]dovanius 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

she won't

[–]shit-zen-giggles 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

no, she has been sentenced: 4 years in prison.

[–]Monkeattack 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that's fucked up

[–]vector5633 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd be in jail before I let anyone treat me like that. She would have caught an ass whooping she would have never forgotten.

I'm not one that advocates for violence, but when it's to defend and protect myself, all bets are off. I don't care if you're a man or woman. You're tough enough to hit and abuse someone, then you're tough enough to get hit back.

There's a video around here in the subs where this blonde young chick, smacks this guy twice her size. He sent her back to the stone age with the slap he gave her back. Bet she will rethink things before she does that again to anyone. They sounded Russian or German.

[–]LimVess1100 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I assume domestic abuse like this is something I just can't understand because you'd think by the time someone says "you have to sleep on the floor and use the other bathroom" you'd be like "why the fuck?".

Hell the drunk violence I can see someone looking passed. I am comfortable with violence and would just overlook a lot but the enforced verbal commands and broken property to me is just a huge wtf.

I say that it must be something like waterboarding. Watching it it looks like it shouldn't be that bad. But it does something to trigger some relex that makes it a nightmare.

If there's no explanation like that then I'll be perfectly honest I have no respect for people who stay in these situations at all. They either like being the victim or are afraid and trying to preserve themselves, or in some way don't even give a fuck about how their abuser is because it obviously doesn't make the abuser happy.... Nah. I just can't excuse long term victims like this especially choosing to get married and have kids.

There's got to be something that just snaps in their brains or else they are just self preserving cowards and deserve what they get.

There. I fucking said it.

If someone can actually prove that wrong with something credible I would appreciate it lol.

[–]vector5633 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree....if you refuse to leave the POS abusive relationship then it's on them.

[–]Ferbuggity 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's got to be something that just snaps in their brains or else they are just self preserving cowards and deserve what they get.

Look up coercive control... there's a show I saw just yesterday about the Sarah Lawrence cult you might look up also, as a great example of how one person can erode the will of another perfectly normal, intelligent person (in that case, half a dozen of them or so) so they'll do almost anything.

Mind control isn't just a wackadoo conspiracy theory thing, it's real and way more common than most people would like to think. There's so many predatory people, of both sexes, out there... some of course being far worse than others.

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