Is it at all possible for a man to leave a marriage, while his wife is pregnant without being a complete piece of shit?

XavierMalory · 2019-01-29T20:13:20+00:00

Of course it's possible,

If it's another guy's kid in the oven.
You have no conscience.
You were tricked into having a child

e.g. "I'm on the pill." Or "I have endometriosis, I can't get pregnant." Etc. Then a month later, "OMG! It's a miracle baby!" Bullshit it is.

She lied about something major to you prior to you getting married.

e.g. Felony history, drug use, debt in excess of 30K, children with other men that were previously non-existent, (insert insane lie here that shatters your reality about her, etc).

fakndagz · 2019-01-29T20:04:59+00:00

Definitely possible, but unlikely, it depends on the reason.

tenchineuro · 2019-01-29T20:23:32+00:00

Is it at all possible for a man to leave a marriage, while his wife is pregnant without being a complete piece of shit?

If it's not his child, absolutely.

At any rate, both men and women are perfectly free to do this. Of course the wife is also free to make false DV and sexual assault allegations to gain everything in the divorce.

Cristi_Tanase · 2019-01-30T21:17:07+00:00

The world has an infinite amount of possibilities. It all depends on context my friend.

amstone710 · 2019-02-04T06:19:47+00:00

I think you should add in we been married for 5 years. And planned our son for two years. How I asked multiple times if you still wanted to try. Took 6 months to make our son. Who you asked me to start trying for. Let’s also add how you started to drink more once I was pregnant and I ended up in counseling due to you breaking the bed room door open screaming at me when I was 10 weeks pregnant drunk. To the point I had a major panic attack and was hiding in a corner? And also that time I had to pull over on the highway bc I didn’t make a left and you SCREAMED. At me for 20 min to the point I started calling people to pick me up bc I was scared.Or how your friends told you you needed help with the way you treated me. And how for the past month I have been completely alone bc you have been out partying. I became “controlling and guilt tripping” when I became pregnant as you said. Bc I was tired and not feeling well. Bc prior to being pregnant have had pelvic surgery so I can’t be on my feet that much. And controlling bc I would beg you to stay home because I was super lonely. I literally couldn’t keep up with what you wanted in partying and you left. And now bc people are questioning you you do not like it. You asked for this divorce after Friday date night turned into you passed out drunk. And Saturday you didn’t get home till midnight drunk after leaving at 730am. So please stop acting like I’m the bad guy here. People are pissed and have been pissed at you this whole pregnancy. I have done nothing but support you through your military career and dreams.

jepper65 · 2019-01-29T19:58:46+00:00

Eh... No. But why? Context matters.

Title	Is it at all possible for a man to leave a marriage, while his wife is pregnant without being a complete piece of shit?
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Date	January 29, 2019 7:57 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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