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Here are some issues currently impacting men in this 'patriarchy' we live in.

Imnotmrabut

September 3, 2018
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Title Here are some issues currently impacting men in this 'patriarchy' we live in.
Author

Imnotmrabut

Upvotes 64
Comments 21
Date September 3, 2018 12:17 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9cl0px/here_are_some_issues_currently_impacting_men_in/
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Comments

[–]Mehtasticone 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I haven’t read much about the prevalence of sexual abuse perpetrated against male children being completely ignored. The Catholic church’s victims were majority male victims but the controversy is related to the church covering it up, not the thousands upon thousands of male victims who never achieved justice.

The issue of female predators getting a pass especially when the victim is male. Think about the school teacher who became pregnant after she was released on parole ( by her STILL underage victim ). Or ANY of the school teachers who have groomed and then raped their victims only to have the media portray it as an inappropriate work place relationship rather than pedophilia.

Or the difficulties males have in getting law enforcement to take their claims seriously. There was a case of a woman who took in a 12 year old runaway and made him her sex slave. Responding officers told the child upon learning this “You sure landed on your feet, didn’t you”.

The number of female perpetrators is likely slightly higher than number of male perpetrators ( this is because women are more likely to have access to children ) yet no one is even looking at this. I’ll explain why it’s likely in a sec.

Academia doesn’t even study the issue. As we see by studies of spousal abuse, the female rate of being the perpetrator is actually roughly the same as that of male perpetrators. In other words, women are just as fucked up as men in most every way. Yet no ones digging, yet.

Society has failed their sons.

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The issue of female predators getting a pass especially when the victim is male.

In the Catholic church, you need to look at the history of Nuns both physically and sexually abusing children. The incidence are shocking and anything other than statistically insignificant.

As for modern-day sexual abuse of kids being Teachers.... Please GROW UP. The Majority are female family members and people who have access to children through care. Stop with the narrow vision of It's all Randy Schoolboys with Blond Bombshell Sex Kitten teachers. That actually empowers the MAJORITY of abuses to carry on hidden by your stupid stereotypes.

[–]Mehtasticone 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not my stupid stereotypes. I’m better versed in the prevalence of female sexual predators than your average joe/jane. I’ve gone down that rabbit hole and I can’t ever make it back.

Do you know what is the most common element in child sexual predation? Access.

Predators are drawn to positions where they have ready access to victims. Like daycare workers, teachers, boy/Girl Scouts, youth centers and such ( priests and nuns being a niche, but yes that field too ).

The underlying precursors exist in males and females in equal amounts. As with everything human, it falls into a bell curve. And so that being the case, populations of potential predators are similar ( statistically insignificant ) by gender.

But females have easier access. So it’s safe to extrapolate that potential victimization by females is actually greater than their male counterparts.

Basically, they have more opportunities and therefore it is likely that it occurs more.

[–]Mehtasticone 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And I’ll leave this separate because it’s my least favorite conclusion: it’s more likely that a mother will sexually abuse their child than a father.

CPS used to have a category ( and might still ) for this: “over-affectionate mothers”.

Fun times😔

[–]20cansofSpam 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And the mothers don't care.

[–]Mehtasticone 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They do, individually. Unfortunately the feminist movement is so focused on destroying an imaginary thing, the patriarchy, rather than the control matrix that actually does exist, they are blinded to male suffering.

[–]SomePerson111222333 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

" Or the difficulties males have in getting law enforcement to take their claims seriously. There was a case of a woman who took in a 12 year old runaway and made him her sex slave. Responding officers told the child upon learning this “You sure landed on your feet, didn’t you”. "

Can you provide a link for this story please? I would like to have it on hand.

[–]Mehtasticone 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It was part of a study I was citing for a paper I was doing years ago so it’s a little more complicated to find than a google search. I will try to find it again but it’ll take a while 😔

[–]SomePerson111222333 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well please do so.

[–]Mehtasticone 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Not any time soon, but sure.

Edit- read the preview for “The Male Survivor” on google if you want an idea of how much fun looking for this is ( i definitely cited that pub heavily in my paper , might not be that one, but it’ll eventually lead me to the one I wanted ).

[–]NothingIsPure 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

In the next decade we lost our balls completely

[–]DownvotedByShitters 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cutoff at birth because male genital mutilation is funny, acceptable and applauded.

[–]DownvotedByShitters 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

@whoever wrote this, I just wish it looked more professional. It kind of screams "written with anger" which the type of women described in this kind of article will just dismiss as whiney and irrelevant (not saying the content is irrelevant).

[–]PMmepicsofyourtits 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What happened in 83-88? There’s a big dip for men.

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not being flippant when I say there was an AIDS effect. I've seen that Dip before and it was linked to people not wanting to know because of the poor AIDS men who deserved attention and sympathy. That's why it went back up toward the end of the 80's and into the 90's.

[–]thrway_1000 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Archive -- https://archive.is/lgi1Y

[–]Eastuss 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

How do you debunk the argument that all these issues are created by the "patriarchy"?

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

By showing we live in a Matriarchy!

[–]Eastuss 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How do you show we live in a matriarchy?

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just ask any women who has more power - men or women?

[–]Eastuss 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They'll answer men because we're in a patriarchy, you'll ask them the definition of patriarchy and they'll give you criteria that don't fit with our society since 2 generations.

So all this is circular, we need to debunk the argument that men's issues are originating from patriarchy.

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