My soon to be ex-wife has stolen $300 from me

GrayCalf · 2021-03-22T10:57:18+00:00

Be thankful it only cost you $300 to find out what kind of woman you were dealing with. At the end of my marriage, my ex had taken thousands of dollars and maxed out our joint credit card. Others have had tens of thousands or more stolen from them.

Good luck on your journey!

Robosnails · 2021-03-22T11:16:18+00:00

My wife just left 3 weeks ago, took the kids and 25k from our joint checking account. Could be worse.

CHEPO1966 · 2021-03-22T16:15:21+00:00

When parents or relatives get into relationships, cause a lot of damage, and unfortunately you lived with them, once your wife finished studying, she realized that she could earn more than you, added to the opinions of her mother and Grandma, they took her further, you were only a means to reach their goal, once arrived, you stopped being useful, it is better that you leave, and thank God, that you do not have children,

Mavik52 · 2021-03-23T02:53:58+00:00

You need to unfuck yourself. I have bad credit, it's not my fault. I got into a car accident, it's not my fault. My wife's family won't cosign for me to get what I want, I'm upset. If you have bad credit, it's 100% your fault. You got into a car accident, maybe the other driver was at fault, but you were driving, so the situation is your problem. You need to start taking responsibility for your life, because wherever you are right now is the result of all of YOUR choices. She stole three hundred dollars but you both were claiming someone else's kids for a tax break? Unbelievable.

Mavik52 · 2021-03-23T17:06:11+00:00

What are you attempting to fix? Why are you trying to fix it? What do you even want? Put yourself 10 years into the future and imagine rediscovering this post, would you really care about the three hundred dollars? What would you care about and wish you did differently? Perhaps trying to reconnect with your wife? Or realize that you truly aren't happy with her?

You are caught up in all the small pieces of drama getting pulled in all directions and you aren't looking at the big picture. Women are exceptional at creating these scenarios. I was simply trying to snap you out of it using the same tactic women often deploy, the push/pull. My first response I pushed you, and you reacted by defending yourself and then telling me to fuck off. I responded by pulling away and demonstrating indifference. You changed your tone but you were still validating your actions. I am a complete stranger, I could be a patient in a mental hospital and not laid eyes on a woman in 20 years for all you know. So why would anything I say create any negative emotions for you? If a total stranger can get under your skin, what impact does the woman you are married to have when she does the same?

Understand that my responses where in no way an attempt to dump on you or judge you. I am attempting to aggressively lead you to a fork in the road where you realize that one path is the same as the one you have been on. Where you seek the approval of your wife, don't take responsibility for your actions, and you have given away your power. The other road is where you can reclaim your role in this world, the role of a man, your birthright. To be a leader, to project strength, to keep your family safe, to accept responsibility even when it wasn't your fault. To understand who you are and what you want and communicate that mission and let the people in your life join you or get out of the way. To not occupy your energy with trivial things like $300 or bad credit. Those are bumps in the road that you can either jump over or allow them to trip you and fall flat on your face crying about how it's not fair. This is all about your mindset. It's about pulling yourself out of the chaos that women create and looking at the big picture, where action moves the needle. Both paths will be difficult, because life is difficult. But one offers freedom and an acceptance of who you are or your terms, no one else's. The other is on everyone else's terms, and the suffering is guaranteed. I am simply sharing my opinions based on my experience in life. If it helps I'm grateful, and if it doesn't no worries.

Title	My soon to be ex-wife has stolen $300 from me
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Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	March 22, 2021 10:49 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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