I realize not all red pill men want a stay at home wife/ mother. However, there are many that do. They want the traditional. However, if the relationship ends, they want to keep their money. So, how much do they really value a woman that doesn't work outside the home.

I told a man that many men would enjoy that... coming home to a clean home, home cooked meals, etc, but would they also appreciate that.

So, I tried to tell him reasons I want to work.

  1. I want to be truly valued by him and society (sad but true- society doesn't value people as much of they don't earn money).

  2. I don't want him to feel he should make all the financial decisions.

  3. I find staying home isolating and boring (especially since I'm older- no more babies).

  4. He seemed to think taking care of the home AND raising kids is easy. Well, I disagree with that especially raising kids. Plus, even if that was true- I like having challenges in my life.

  5. I don't want that to be seen as my "role."