Turned this guy down politely bc he was uncomfortably physically pushy. Turns out he's just unable to take no for an answer :')

glittersparklesglitz · 2021-02-04T23:14:23+00:00

That’s why we block and delete.

Then_Advertising_773 · 2021-02-04T23:24:20+00:00

His messages are kinda low effort,

at least he should have asked the reason or be more well thought if he decided to text again.

Platipus6 · 2021-02-05T00:10:00+00:00

You can tell a scrote No 99 times (you didn't) but if you say 1 thing that gives them hope they'll only hear that.

You said "right now" (you meant "at all") and he had hope.

You had "a nice time" (no you didn't) - mixed message, he had hope.

You also said you're sorry (no you're not), and he heard that you regret not being interested, so he had more hope.

If you're texting from a safe location, it's ok to be 100% blunt.

"The date with you was awful, I'm not interested in you, goodbye". Block.

poliedrica · 2021-02-04T23:34:34+00:00

Honestly? I was kinda disappointed when I saw someone turned someone down on Christmas. But, then I realized, he didn't care then! He didn't react much at all. It was casual. It wasn't even that serious for him to be bothered that it happened on Christmas. And yet he's still coming back for more? How low on options can one guy be?

Title	Turned this guy down politely bc he was uncomfortably physically pushy. Turns out he's just unable to take no for an answer :')
Author	poliedrica
Upvotes	25
Comments	17
Date	February 4, 2021 11:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lct2nw/turned_this_guy_down_politely_bc_he_was/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/turned-this-guy-down-politely-bc-he-was.1193151 https://theredarchive.com/post/1193151

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