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The “manosphere” is getting more toxic as angry men join the incels

tonyespresso

February 7, 2020
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Title The “manosphere” is getting more toxic as angry men join the incels
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tonyespresso

Upvotes 10
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Date February 7, 2020 5:58 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/f0e5id/the_manosphere_is_getting_more_toxic_as_angry_men/
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Comments

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

Men have every right to be angry in today's culture.

[–][deleted] 6 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

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[–]EvilLothar 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

When people are mutilating baby boys, and laughing at men's pain.. I don't think hate and condemnation is unwarented.

[+]BlingReap -13 points-12 points-11 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I do. Why should we spend time hating these people when we could spend time doing something? Protest (peacefully). Make your activism known. Do something. Just don’t hate. That gets nothing done and obfuscates our view point.

[–]EvilLothar 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Hate is a natural motivator ... sure, don't JUST hate... but you can use your hate to fuel your activism.

Let the hate flow through you.. your hate makes you strong.

[–]dovakin123489 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Hate doesn’t make you strong. Equality and hate don’t mix my man. I love this movement and I love most people in it. But hate only fuels more hate like violence fuels more violence.

[–]EvilLothar 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

And nothing will change until the feminists are destroyed one and for all. There are no feminists in an emergency. Or in a disaster. Or at the collapse of your society.

[–]dovakin123489 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

But sitting there stewing in your hate does absolutely nothing. What are you going to do. Go start a rally. Go organize a protest. Go do something because hate is the epitome of nothing

[–]EvilLothar 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That is totally the point. If we do NOTHING, society will crumble. And it will.. and some of us are waiting for it.

[–]dovakin123489 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes but hate isn’t something. Hate does nothing and has never brought any good change. Do smart things, not hateful things.

[–]tenchineuro 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But radical hate and condemnation is not the way to advocate for men’s rights.

Just being concerned about men's rights gets you labeled as hating women. There is no nuance here, none at all.

[–]Sasha_ 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A lot of men are ‘involuntarily celebrate’ because so many women are either feminists, total bitches or infected with feminist tropes they are totally unfuckable. .

[–]BlingReap 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You mean “celibate” right? And? That doesn’t justify hate speech and bigotry.

[–]Lethn 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only way you could consider these views as hate and condemnation is if you're a manipulative scumbag who has an axe to grind against men and you agree with feminist ideas.

[–]xNOM 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The “manosphere,” as it is known, is divided into four broad groups. “Men’s right’s activists” (MRAs) claim that family law and social institutions discriminate against men.

Ok. That's... actually halfways accurate.

“Men going their own way” (MGTOW) take this feeling of grievance further, arguing that society can’t be “amended”; they often avoid women, blaming them for their problems.

Er... what? I don't think they blame women. They blame the gynocentric system.

“Pick-up artists” (PUAs), meanwhile, date and harass women; they believe society is “feminizing” men.

LOL they always fuck this one up.

And then there are the incels, the most potentially violent of the group. Incels abide by the “black pill,” a belief that women use their sexual power to dominate men socially. For that, incels want revenge.

This is just... false.

So. 1 for 4. Not bad.

[–]mgtowolf 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice TLDR. Even getting one thing partially right is a rarity when it's satan, I mean the "manosphere" being discussedslandered

[–]xNOM 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

The team’s analysis showed that speech in the most extreme manosphere groups on Reddit, known as subreddits, was far more hateful than the speech of a random sample of Reddit users, and more on the wavelength of fringe far-right hate groups like those that frequent the social network Gab.

Well you know the thing about "hate speech." Everyone's definition of it is different. I bet r/feminism never showed up on their radar.

EDIT: the article has a link to the research article here.

https://arxiv.org/pdf/2001.07600.pdf

Arxiv is not peer-reviewed. But the papers uploaded here are often published later in real journals.

Apparently, they used Google's "Perspective API" to search for "toxicity."

Also they decide to dump on Warren Farrell. Jesus.

Many of the figures at the forefront of the Men’s Rights Movements were once associated with second-wave feminism; Warren Farrell, for example, led a men’s group within the National Organization for Women. He then, in 1993, wrote the Myth Of Male Power [22]. This book became a fundamental text to Men’s Rights Activists, claiming that men, not women, are systematically disadvantaged in modern society. Farrell’s work has repeatedly been criticized as simplistic and insensitive to women’s struggle for equality [8, 45].

[–]CanadianHorseGal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahahahaha I was doing some research and couldn’t pass up your mansplaining and making up words like “gynocentric” bullshit. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[–]Lethn 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At this point I'm beginning to wonder if there shouldn't be a class action lawsuit of some kind against these groups doing this 'research'. Forget the misogyny accusations, that's too vague, but the fact that they keep claiming the subreddits are using 'hateful' language is fucking dumb.

I think they're a few articles away from openly declaring us anti-women terrorists. They're not that stupid though, they know if they do that it will open themselves up to legal action, so they're keeping it nice and vague to try and scare people with their propaganda.

I bet their research is absolutely shit and it's just a bunch of keyword searches as well that don't mean anything.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

men don't get angry for no reason.

[–]stentorian46 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Well, I appreciate that. But women don't get angry for no reason either. I know many MRAs hold feminists accountable for practically every social evil, but it should be acknowledged that feminism didn't just come out of nowhere. There were, and are, problems women face - I don't just mean wage gap or that nonsense. More like the problem of being able to get around as a "real person", not as primarily a "woman", a "mother", a "wife", etc. It gets easier as you get older. I am in my 40s and while it's not like I never get "checked out" anymore sexually, it is relaxing, a HUGE relief, in a way, to not be getting assessed as a potential fuck wherever I go. I mean when I was younger - and I'm definitely not alone - it was so hard to get men to listen to what you were saying. About anything. Literally. Or having men taking the piss out of you for wanting to use your brain (eg a male academic saw me reading Wittengenstein when I was 18 and said "that's a big book for a little girl!" - your stomach just sort of curdles. And if you get angry you're a "bad sport" or have "no sense of humour"). I probably haven't explained it well but I think this is why sometimes women do feel like there's a "patriarchy" or at least this shitty inevitability that women are always ...lesser. It's not that I think any or all men are perpetuating the "patriarchy". It's more like patriarchy has become self-perpetuating and beyond any particular human being's control, like capitalism.

[–]iainmf 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well, I appreciate that. But women ...

Why did you change the subject to women's experiences?

[–]stentorian46 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well just by way of trying to explain ...did a dreadful job. Have had some rude feedback!

[–]iainmf 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can understand the rude responses. The response you gave was complaining about women being seen as lesser while making also making it seem like women’s issues are more important.

And one of the things a lot of men are angry about is women’s issues getting almost all of the attention.

[–]Sarm11111 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You’ll have to provide data that backs you claim on MRA’s because most I’ve seen simply want equal rights in divorce law, address male suicide being 6x that of women, and many other issues that arnt about feminism of females at all. Guys like Paul Elum or Will Farrow actually hope feminism is helping women but it’s not a zero sum game for MRAs to succeed, feminism does not need to fail. I have witnessed many feminist attacking MRAs without even understanding what it’s about. Like Casey Jay’s movie “the red pill”. It was protested and bullied venue owners accused the movie as hate against feminism, had never even seen the movie. The rest of your paragraph is just BS and contributes to more women abandoning feminism. Each false accusation and outright sexism practiced by many radical feminists is one more step to irrelevance. This level of self poisoning can’t be good for you’.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I am in my 40s and while it's not like I never get "checked out" anymore sexually, it is relaxing, a HUGE relief, in a way, to not be getting assessed as a potential fuck wherever I go.

so youre arguing for the literal impossible...if fucking human nature fuck its all nature all animals wanna fuck both genders check each other out and while youre complaining about basic biology men are getting fucked in life because of society and you have the gall to complain about minor inconveniences guess what theres assholes everywhere ive met a ton of asshole woman and men i have to deal with it just like everybody else fuck off

[–]stentorian46 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Holy cow. I was NOT minimizing any sort of MRA issue when I posted that. Just trying to shed a little light on shit. And of course women check men out... Especially for a very young inexperienced woman aggressive male sexual attention can be frightening. I suppose it might be the same for very young men. But, you know ... stuff like being 18 and your own in a train compartment with drunken men saying "suck my dick" etc makes girls want to disappear, or cry, or both.

[–]stentorian46 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ps tbh (I've not mentioned this on reddit before BECAUSE I suspect I'll get chucked or banned from Men's Rights) I have PhD and have published a feminist study of the writer Jean Rhys. I have also published papers on feminist issues. I mention this not to boast but to make a point: since I got this qualification at the age of 31, men have treated me like rubbish..UNLESS man in question has a PhD too, in which case he might be condescending instead of threatened. I am sure this has nothing to do with the (feminist) content of my work. It's just the PhD itself. My first husband tried to stop me from finishing it. He would do shit like pull the plug out of the computer before I'd saved my work... Shit. I could go on. But my point is, it's not just a question of "minor inconvenience". A lot (not all) men seem to need to always feel intellectually superior to the woman they are sexually involved with, and it causes real issues for women sometimes.

[–]mgtowolf 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Archive link, get woke go broke

[–]rabel111 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is garbage hit job research by misandrist academics with massive bias and too much time on their hands, making unsupported assumptions based on fairly uninformative data.

The study shows sexist bias in the opening paragraph of the report, referring to men’s rights subs as “fringe online communities ...... orchestrating harassment campaigns and spreading extremist ideologies on the Web.” This entrenched sexist bias is further exhibited in the entirely negative framing of the MRA, INCEL and MGTOW group characteristics and the inclusion of PUA and INCEL groups with legitimate men’s right forums. The obvious and extreme negativity towards men reveal the objective of the study is to validate the sexist views of the researchers rather than objectively interpret the data.

The study assumes that all users posting on the various subs are men supporting views expressed on the sub, who do or will exhibit the extreme negative characteristics attributed by the researchers. There is no acknowledgment that some posters on the various subs may be critical of the sub, or some hate speech originates in posts by radical feminists abusing users or brigading/baiting users.

The study also assumes that the MRA, INCEL, PUA and MGTOW groups exist as varying points of misogyny on a single continuum, presenting men’s subs as more or less, but universally misogynist.

Overall, the only journals that will publish this kind of sexist garbage are those with entrenched cultures of misandry. That may be the only valid conclusion that can be derived from the study.

[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here is the definition of toxic from the Google API they used to measure toxicity

What's toxic?

This model was trained by asking people to rate internet comments on a scale from "Very toxic" to "Very healthy" contribution. Toxic is defined as... "a rude, disrespectful, or unreasonable comment that is likely to make you leave a discussion."

[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_3 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Give us a reason not to

[–]TheBrawltender 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know you can't handle rejection when you equate men avoiding women to an act of terrorism.

[–]McGauth925 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you look at women's sub reddits, you'll find LOTS of female toxicity. There are some men who are completely prejudiced against women, just as there are some women completely prejudiced against men. The culture, overall, favors women, and condones misandry, all the while it condemns men and misogyny. And, more misogyny occurs as a result.

[–]Sarm11111 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn’t say more toxic, but I would say that men are waking up to the realities in western countries and doing the math, it just ain’t worth it. There is literally nothing in marriage that men benefit from, and with the cards stacked against men, they know that the only way to win is not to play.

[–]tenchineuro 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

From the paper...

  • https://arxiv.org/pdf/2001.07600.pdf
  • 5 Toxicity in the Manosphere Next, we study the spread of hate speech in the Manosphere and how the prevalence of hate speech compares to other mainstream and fringe Web communities. To do so, we rely on Google’s Perspective API [52], which provides a toxicity score assessing how rude/aggressive/hateful a comment is. More specifically, we run all posts from all forums as well as the subreddits throught he API and obtain the toxicity score for each post. We use the“Severe Toxicity” score provided since it more accurately rates the positive use of profanity [52]

Anybody know anything about Google Perspective? It seems to be the sole basis for this.

[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

https://www.perspectiveapi.com/#/home

If you scroll down to "Create tools for commenters" there is a box where you can type in a comment and get back a toxicity score.

​

edit: Here is how they define toxic

What's toxic?

This model was trained by asking people to rate internet comments on a scale from "Very toxic" to "Very healthy" contribution. Toxic is defined as... "a rude, disrespectful, or unreasonable comment that is likely to make you leave a discussion."

[–]tenchineuro 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This model was trained by asking people to rate internet comments on a scale from "Very toxic" to "Very healthy" contribution. Toxic is defined as... "a rude, disrespectful, or unreasonable comment that is likely to make you leave a discussion."

Unfortunately, currently computers may be able to parse language, but they don't actually understand it. I fear that they can't tell the difference between 'that's stupid' and 'you're stupid'.

The link has a box to test the system, but it does not seem to be working right now, all I get is...

  • We're sorry, we're having trouble at the moment. Please try again later

[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The computer doesn't have to understand language, it just has to find the correlations between certain kinds of sentences and the "toxicity" score given to the sentence by a human.

Even if the computer could get score it exactly as humans do, it would still suffer all of the problems of humans who look at isolated sentences without context.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love how so many of these social justice types slap a number on a heavily subjective assessment process and call it scientific.

[–]azazelcrowley 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Radicalization is a normal and unfortunate part of a civil rights groups demands going unmet for long enough that members begin to seek more extreme explanations for lack of progress. We simply have to hope that the MRM can recruit faster than turnover occurs.

If we'd ignored MLK a decade or two longer, there'd be a "Radicalization" toward violence among civil rights activists too. Indeed acknowledging this fact is one reason why progress occurred; the alternative was an eventual race war. You can't mistreat people in perpetuity when they've caught on to the fact you're doing it. Colonies that weren't left peacefully, were left after military conflict.

Those who do not make peaceful revolution possible, make violent revolution inevitable.

Uniquely we are in a situation where there is a catch 22. There is no "Violent MRM", no faction saying; "If our demands are not met, we should murder people until they are.". This is because such a faction would be used as justification to suppress us further and to mischaracterize our movement.

That frustration, which all civil rights groups have experienced in the past, is instead channeled into radicalization of *goals* as well as methods.

It may be worth a dialogue about modern societies hostility to violent movements and the advocacy of them. If it turns out to be the case that suppression of all forms of these movements produces things like;

"If we can't get even basic healthcare reform because our enemy is being unfair, and we're not allowed to say, 'Do it or we'll riot', then I guess i'll just become a revolutionary communist and support killing everyone rich", or then it may be an overall negative for society.

MRAs radicalizing into Incels may be doing so because there is no "MRA's, but with riots and violence" faction. This doesn't actually produce less violence. Just violence towards less justifiable goals. Instead of "Well, we're going to riot outside the UN until amber heard is sacked because we know they're not going to listen to our argument or treat us fairly in the media" it'll be; "I guess i'll go on a shooting spree at a university because of a vague hatred of women".

​

Given that MRAs are also more "Active" in terms of desire to influence society, while Incels are traditionally "passive" in their outlook to a greater extent, the radicalization of MRAs resulting from a lack of progress on mens issues may produce a situation where Incel spaces become 'More toxic' in terms of radicalized MRAs pushing for more "Activity" and action on their beliefs.

[–]ifelsedowhile 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

maybe I'm being sexist, but the reason why more people join the "incels" is because they are not getting laid and I wouldn't put the blame solely on them for it.

[–]stentorian46 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Hey I don't know much about "incels" - but as as a feminist (albeit a "dissident" feminist) I do think women will sometimes use sexual power to dominate men. It is a very self-defeating thing for women to do, and sometimes dangerous.

I suppose it happens because -especially when you're a young, heterosexual woman - you do have, potentially, tremendous sexual power ... so long as you don't actually have sex.

I'm older now but when I was very young I remember feeling very nervous and self-conscious about all this sexual power I was supposed to have. And then as I matured, I got it all wrong. I'd think I was having fascinating conversations with men because they actually wanted to talk to me: had to learn that sometimes (not always) men just feign interest to get laid.

Anyway my point is that often all this supposed "sexual power" tends to go kaput once you've put out. It's a Faustian bargain...

That said many young women end up with veritable male fan clubs using "pussy power". so much contrivance and fakery involved, though.

Too much hard work, really!

[–]xNOM 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And then as I matured, I got it all wrong. I'd think I was having fascinating conversations with men because they actually wanted to talk to me: had to learn that sometimes (not always) men just feign interest to get laid.

This is the female blind spot. The male blind spot is that they think women want to sleep with them for reasons other than their resources and social status.

[–]stentorian46 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

hey, that's not fair! I've been seriously in love with more than one man who didnt have a bean-it's always brains that count with me. Can't talk to stupid people for long, regardless of gender. Looks are not important, money isn't important ...I admit that I prefer men who are "intellectual" but they don't need to have gone to "college" (or "uni" as we say in Australia). My ex - who destroyed our relationship with violence and infidelity) had no money, no job. I was buying his cigarettes! But he was brilliant and made me laugh - which is why it took so long for me to end it. Another ex-I was seriously in love with him. I'd just finished my PhD, he was still working on his. He was only as tall as me (5 ft 4) and again - poor as a church mouse! We broke up because I wasn't comfortable with his "occasional" heroin use. The day he submitted his PhD thesis, he "celebrated" by taking some smack and died. That was back in 2008 and I still miss him so much. Anyway I have shared this to make the point that money/status -while superficially an aphrodisiac for some women - doesn't make a woman fall in love.

[–]McGauth925 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

YOU, maybe. But, we're reading that women aren't marrying as much in these times because men are falling behind financially. That gives us all a completely fair overview. Women want men mostly for resources.

[–]xNOM 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

? It's just data. Stop acting like a 12-yr-old. Why are you taking it like a personal accusation?

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/276318796_Income_attraction_An_online_dating_field_experiment

money/status -while superficially an aphrodisiac for some women - doesn't make a woman fall in love.

Nice tits don't make men fall in love, either.

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