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Middle Aged Women are Incels and Men are to blame

benderXX

September 21, 2019
42 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/30/well/live/menopause-sex-decline-partner-husband-wife.html
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Title Middle Aged Women are Incels and Men are to blame
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benderXX

Upvotes 42
Comments 10
Date September 21, 2019 8:44 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/d7g1hk/middle_aged_women_are_incels_and_men_are_to_blame/
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Comments

[–]Thuban 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

We're to blame for everything. Didn't you all know that? If women ever had true equality which included owning their own shit they'd have a collective breakdown.

[–]benderXX[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Too late and too bad. Equality is no longer an option. It’s mandatory.

[–]IrascibleTruth 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For values of "equality" based on double standards and outcomes, yes.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"For many women, sex after menopause is not as satisfying as it used to be. But is menopause entirely to blame?"

Yes.

[–]xNOM 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not even menopause. Women have low libidos, period. It's not mentioned anywhere in the article. I found it hilarious.

[–]benderXX[S] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Imagine an article dedicated to suggesting men aren’t getting enough sex because women are failing them sexually.

“While women traditionally have been blamed when sex wanes in a relationship, the research shows that, often, it’s the health of a woman’s partner that determines whether she remains sexually active and satisfied with her sex life.”

[–]RoryTate 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When society chooses to notice just how much the average man sacrifices in his younger years for a family or gf, and how much it grinds down his physical and mental health as he grows older, maybe then these women won't be so quick to discard him for a "less used" replacement. Or maybe they'll see a change in funding and equal investment into men's health as being important too.

The stereotype seems to be of a wealthy top 1% man falling for a younger version of his wife and heartlessly dumping the woman he married, but that's the apex fallacy again, and most men I see are still in debt, fighting health concerns, and looking weary and generally disillusioned with life well into their 40's and 50's. And it's the woman (70% of the time IIRC) who then chooses to end the marriage or drifts into infidelity because he no longer "meets her needs".

[–]TrueTopic 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The reasons they listed were basically all health reasons due to age on both sides. The entire article could have been written without invoking any difference between men and women: When people get old it's harder to have sex. Sometimes one partner is still willing and able but the other partner isn't. This is sad.

[–]1LegendaryWombat 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some of those numbers are somewhat skewed by the fact they measured partners whose's spouses are DEAD.

If you're like 55 and your partner dies, i think most people don't have very active sex lives after that, man or woman, especially the ones who are dead.

[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And I'm sure she'd say the reason men don't get laid as much as they'd like after marriage is because men are doing something wrong.

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