Hello.

I'm in a 6 month satisfying LTR. It's one of my first, and I would say that the only thing that bothers me about it is that the odd time, say less than once every month, my LTR doesn't want to have sex. Sex is great and we have progressed together within that area a lot, however sometimes, when a day out or a date has been relatively frigid in terms of rapport, she won't want to have sex. It's not an angry or annoyed "I'm not having sex with you tonight", but rather a lack of desire from her side. I never try to bargain, and give the cold shoulder when I realise what's going on, however recently I have started to wonder if it's failure on my part for not warming her up and expecting sex from a rather cold state.

I would be of the opinion that an LTR regularly not wanting sex is a huge problem, however since it's happening so rarely here I was wondering if anyone could weigh in.

EDIT: Thanks for the replies, everyone. A very large takeaway from this for me is that I still need to be gaming my LTR. If I look at the last few months I've almost completely stopped and even thought I shouldn't need to put in effort anymore, which now that I look at it is wrong.