Please help me, I’m spiralling out of control

Naus1987 · 2023-03-26T13:14:49+00:00

Maturity isn’t something that comes easy. It often comes with practice. You can’t get through life like an entitled toddler who throws temper tantrums anytime they don’t get what they want.

Sometimes not getting your way is a very important life lesson. You have to learn how to lose with grace. How to not be perfect. And to not get your way, and still be content and chill about it.

If you can’t afford therapy, then seek out role models. Lots of people out there living perfectly awesome lives without having sex.

banes_rule_of_two · 2023-03-26T12:27:06+00:00

See a therapist if you can mate. Stay away from incel forums, and if you can start going to events in your area. There's a site called meetup.com that is good for this kind of thing. Feel free to ask any questions you want bud my dms are open.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-03-26T16:06:18+00:00

Okay if you are going to be single forever you might as well make the best of your life. Maybe get some therapy for your mental health issues, make some friends, take care of your health, focus on your career, get out of the house, and do the things you've always wanted to do.

No_Jelly_6635 · 2023-03-26T19:14:49+00:00

First, you are NOT going to be an incel forever! Don’t speak it into existence with a self fulfilling prophecy

Second, get off the internet and go watch a movie. By yourself. Deadass

Third, eat some food you really love and enjoy your day. When was the last time you had a really good day?

Fourth, Find a book to read that will keep you busy for a week or two. GET OFF THE INTERNET AND OUT OF MANOSPHERE!

These are immediate solutions to get your mind off of things ASAP but for the long term you need to:

Finally, see a therapist ASAP. Go to your doctor ask for anxiety meds even. It will help calm you down. Only when you are emotionally, mentally and physically healthy you can think about a relationship or sex of any kind. You are not ready. GET OFF THE INTERNET

RevenueComplex9722 · 2023-03-27T16:20:23+00:00

Hi. I'm a woman assuming you're a man. I can't say I have the solution. But I can say that I'm seeing a rise of red piller among women to counter the male red pillers and it's disturbing and sad. What they have in common is that they think they don't have anything in common but they have everything in common:

They have made each other the centre of their universe. Solution: Decentralise romance
They have no empathy for others and use kindness to gain something out of others
They are bitter, resentful, arrogant people who don't take responsibility for themselves
They surround themselves with echo chambers who refuse to hold others or themselves accountable.

My assumption is that as long as you don't resonate with the above mentioned or you try your best to heal from/detach from the above mentioned personality traits, then you'll be well on your way to clearing the path for your future partner because by then you would have cleared the path for who you are as a person, un-muddled by the mask wearing.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2023-03-27T00:16:08+00:00

To be fair, it doesn't take much to get banned from incelexit.

Iamnothere000 · 2023-03-26T08:03:52+00:00

Masturbate a lot to -relive stress -get a clear Head -realise women worthless if it was not for sex

OgZero · 2023-04-01T12:19:18+00:00

Start talking to EVERYONE you see, female or male. Say hi/hello. Try to start with small talk, ask a question you never know where the conversation will go. Saying hi can go a very long way... Don't worry about the results or the past or future just stay in the present.

Title	Please help me, I’m spiralling out of control
Author	Theheros_journey
Upvotes	11
Comments	22
Date	March 26, 2023 5:54 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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