I am writing here under another reddit account because the alleged mother of my child has found my real account and would create pandemonium if she read my post, as she has in the past.

She has a child, 2 year old baby, that she claims is mine. Since I have "no legal rights," the child "belongs to her"

Truth be told, don't judge me, I never wanted a child. I never liked this woman and I'm leaving out all the details regarding her insanity because I do NOT have all the time in the world to explain how demented she is.

Facts: *I am not on the birth certificate and it's been 2 years.

*They are in Europe and I'm in California (but she and the baby are US citizens)

*She has no interest in having me in the child's life outside of financial support

*I am willing to waive my rights in order to remove her from my life permanently

*She helped administer a home DNA test, which was highly open to her manipulation. (came back that he is my child but she says the kid isn't mine when she gets mad, which makes me think there's something she knows that I don't.)

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PS please don't virtue signal all over me and tell me I shouldn't have had sex with her or anything along those lines. That's a basic thought and doesn't contribute anything productive. I know some of you want children or can't see your children, I never wanted children, I never liked this woman, so don't judge me. She 100% plotted, took advantage of me, and baby trapped me to the fullest degree. I just want to remove myself from the equation entirely.

If you guys know what my potential options are, please help. Thanks.