We, as men, how can get rid of our traditional gender roles ?

AvailableCandidate89 · 2023-04-17T22:25:58+00:00

Second, we need to control our libido. This is solely reason why rapist exist, they can't control their thoughts. If we control without destroy it, men would be happier and don't spend their money on pr0n. This also would make men geniuely respect women, not for their sexiness but for their personalities. Both parties would be happy.

Your mask fell off, btw.

We don't need more "controlling" of men's sexuality. We already have legal infant male genital mutilation to traumatize them into masturbating less, stronger protections for women at any time in history, and rates of rape and "crime against wymyn" are also provably at the lowest time in history.

It was men that enabled this, and they sure as fuck didn't do it by demonizing the sex drive of their brothers and children, in fact they managed all this in spite of that.

Fuck off with your sexist ideas of what a man should be. Shove them very, very, far up your ass.

g1455ofwater · 2023-04-17T23:02:54+00:00

You are participating in traditional gender roles by victim blaming men.

Quick lesson for you on traditional gender roles:

Women's problems are society's responsibility to fix.

Men's problems are men's responsibility. Men must pull up there bootstraps.

That traditional thinking is exactly what you just advocated for. Try having empathy for men, it's non-traditional which you claim you want.

AdIllustrious6191 · 2023-04-17T23:38:17+00:00

I disagree with the whole post. Men are a product of thousands of years of conditioning and can not just shed their traditional gender roles like taking off a coat. Many men (assuming most of the men who visit this reddit) will never "change" and do not want to.

carverstein · 2023-04-18T00:48:15+00:00

A) stop giving women money.

B) stop providing for them.

C) stop white knighting and protecting them

D) if you see the sexy service industry worker giving you a cute look, don’t tip her. She’s just trying to gold dig and transacting sexiness.

You want to end gender roles? Then stop worshipping women. They’re just another worker and person. Absolutely never white knight or give them money for any reason.

Th age how you end gender roles. Because women want you to keep being in your traditional gender roles while they do not. So stop participating in the scam.

Why be rigid in something when they aren’t? That’s just a recipe to be abused and used as a piggy bank.

NITAREEDDESIGNS · 2023-04-17T21:43:51+00:00

The biggest REASON that I support men is because they are strong, honorable and have integrity (not all, obviously). I don't want them sacrificing themselves but in this bizarro world where there is an agenda to feminizes/emasculate men, I have to ask...WTAF?

Second, we need to control our libido. This is solely reason why rapist exist, they can't control their thoughts. If we control without destroy it, men would be happier and don't spend their money on pr0n. This also would make men geniuely respect women, not for their sexiness but for their personalities. Both parties would be happy.

Actually, you sound like a feminist.

Tsui_Red · 2023-04-17T22:13:31+00:00

I don't disagree with the first at all. It's the control out libido so we aren't rapists is what is troll. That right there screams feminist or at least feminist indoctrinated male

Standard-Okra6337 · 2023-04-18T01:32:13+00:00

Now looking back at the "Second, we need to control our libido. This is solely reason why rapist exist, they can't control their thoughts. If we control without destroy it, men would be happier and don't spend their money on pr0n. This also would make men geniuely respect women, not for their sexiness but for their personalities. Both parties would be happy." paragraph, i went too extereme using the word "rapist". It was just before my sleep when i wrote that.

Please replace the word "rapist" with "simps/coomers/whiteknights".

I am by no means a troll. Just check out my profile and you will see.

phoenician_anarchist · 2023-04-17T23:26:46+00:00

society expects us to be selfless and brave.

What's wrong with being brave and selfless? There's great honour in defending the defenceless, standing up for what's right no matter the consequence, standing up against those would harm the innocent, doing what needs to be done no matter how unsavoury it is...

there is also something called "honor" which brainwashes many men into doing unlogical actions.

Ah, I see... Honour is unlogical... Would you rather we be dishonourable instead?

He died at the age of 27 because "patriarchy" told him to die.

Patriarchy, eh? Hmm....

Another example is titanic, when lifeboats were all claimed by children and women. I understand children, but why women should use boats instead of sharing it?

Have you ever seen a woman in a crisis? 🤣🤣

Since my age of 13, this issue got in my head.

A lot of people become vegans because of this. Animals must die if they are to provide meat, it is unfortunate, but necessary.

First, as men, we need to change our minsdet. Our mindset of us complaining about these issues while doing nothing to improve it. Our mindset of despite having a larger portion in law-making, doing nothing to protect men. Our mindset of "ladies first"/"Nice guy" which causes many men to act two-faced, doing women favours while doing nothing for men in need.( If you are really nice, you help all people. If you are tired of everyone so much, you help no one)

Second, we need to control our libido. This is solely reason why rapist exist, they can't control their thoughts. If we control without destroy it, men would be happier and don't spend their money on pr0n. This also would make men geniuely respect women, not for their sexiness but for their personalities. Both parties would be happy.

Third, we need to teach young boys on how to express their emotions. This could happen if we do my first idea, changing our mindsets. Mindset of big boys dont cry. This would largely drop male suicide rates and domestic violence, as those men who commit these are already got help by people in their enviroment, causing them to more peaceful and happy.

There we go! Could you put your tired old feminist bullshit at the beginning next time? It would sure save everyone a lot of time...

(1. The majority of the voting populace is made up of women, and they are the largest voting block, which means politicians will pander to them. Politicians and lawmakers being men means nothing.)

(2. Fuck off. Pick a rapist at random and there's a good chance he was abused as a child. The average man is not an insatiable sex pests that see women as little more than something to fuck.)

(3. Ah yes, men suffer from domestic violence because they don't cry enough... You see, these violent and abusive women are just trying to help the men they love to express themselves!)

idkyoupickforme · 2023-04-17T21:59:37+00:00

I think this is perhaps why Men's Rights has a hard time getting momentum- no one can ever seem to agree.

I agree that the origins of feminism was likely women trying to rid themselves of gender roles, and that is also often why women still follow it now.

Many within this moment will argue "masculinity is good, men should be men", and equally others will argue "we just want to be ourselves and be overcome stereotypes/overcome gender norms" Extremely contradictory.

Title	We, as men, how can get rid of our traditional gender roles ?
Author	Standard-Okra6337
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Comments	33
Date	April 17, 2023 8:58 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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