Have any of you men had a moment where you decided you were done with your dad’s bs?

Since I was about 15 I’ve not been that intimidated by him. He used to basically just shout and act like a bully. He’s not actually a bad guy at all, he’s quite nice but he can be a child and has a quick temper, and a sort of I’m right you’re wrong arrogance. But now that I’m an adult and he’s nearly 70 I just don’t deal with his bs. For example a few days ago he said in a condescending way “Do I need to repeat myself? Or did you not hear me.”

I simply replied “Lose the attitude.” Yeah that’s how much I’m willing to be blunt.

He replied. “I’m not the one with the attitude.”

And I replied. “Yeah you are.”

I just don’t take his bs seriously anymore. He’s the only person I’ve ever yelled at before. (I only yell at you if you really screwed up, otherwise I’m about as chill as a cucumber) Basically if you can manage to get me angry then you’re either good at being annoying/nuisance or you really messed up.