I am currently separated for a narcissist and drug abuser (prescription pills). I have 1 son with her. Throughout the 5 year marriage she would get a job for about a month, sleep with coworkers and then get fired. We barley made ends meet, but she prioritized her meds, shopping and cigarettes. If she didn't get what she wanted she would threaten me that she would hut herself, call the police and get a TRO. because of this i was out of the house for months and filed for divorce. She has neglected my son since birth, but once I was out of my house and we were separated she would not drop him off at school or pick him up and finally the school, the police and child services got involved. They did the bare minimum, but she was feeling trapped, so she moved out of my home and went to live with her parents. We were separated for 6 months and I haven't seen or talked to her in all that time. All through other people.

Once apart for 6 months she got a DUI with my son of 5 yrs in the car. She was arrested and car taken. Police called me to get her even though I live over an hour away. I did and took her and my son home and left. It was late I was tired. 2 days later I get arrested. she said I hit her in the eye and caused her eyelid to swell in front of my son.

8 months of being treated like a criminal. I am innocent, but the woman who was guilty of 2 DUI's on oxy with my child in the car is the victim. I get 18 months probation & classes and lose my job. I had no prior police issues. She gets sympathy for having a sickness. What is wrong with this world!

Now the divorce is coming up 14 months since separation, and she wants child support and alimony!

I have been paying child support since the TRO, she dropped that TRO and the one she filed at time she accused me of assault. How can they possibly give her Alimony, I dont know how she even has my custody of my son? the system, courts, police, child services and lawyers are messed up. All they care about is money. It it all this woke stuff or is this just how men are treated. Marry them and take everything even if they have nothing.