I am dealing with my sister who thinks all men are lazy and manipulative

jjj2576 · 2023-05-25T21:21:58+00:00

You don’t have to teach her, but you have an obligation as an MRA to set a healthy boundary that Misandrist Generalizations are not acceptable.

What happened when you told your sister that Misandrist Generalizations are unacceptable around you?

BigDaddyDeliciousD · 2023-05-25T21:57:21+00:00

Sadly most women want the same guys. Those guys are players and will not be settling down with any one girl. They need realistic expectations and different things they value in a man. The guy that will impress all her friends is usually not what she should be looking for.

Da_Oi · 2023-05-26T00:40:42+00:00

get a girl to tell her cuz she sure ain't gonna listen to you.

Altered_Beast805 · 2023-05-25T21:26:04+00:00

No matter what you say to her, if your sister is a low quality woman, she will only attract lazy and/or manipulative men.

I would bet that lazy and manipulative men can spot her from a mile away and her opinion is due to her only interacting with those types.

TooMuchToThinkToday · 2023-05-25T22:42:02+00:00

You can't explain it to her. She has been steeped in feminism from birth, taught to be a perpetual victim by the system and now found a way to prover herself right, ok so he was a psycho, but now she is painting all men with the same brush. She can't be reasoned with. Don't try or she will find a way to cut you too

plumberack · 2023-05-25T23:09:19+00:00

It's her projection. She is the common denominator in her relationships. I bet 3rd will also be the same.

Mobile_Lumpy · 2023-05-26T00:13:48+00:00

Don't even try. Doesn't seems that she is in a state of mind to even consider a different opinion to her own, let alone learn from one. Teaching someone who have no desire to learn is a task reserved only for the criminally insane. Don't even try to take on this fools errand my man. You'll only waste your time.

ShandyFatGirl · 2023-05-25T22:35:09+00:00

Be nice to her, be the obvious example that some men are amazing. Just listen to her and care - her ex was awful, if she knows you are better she will not think horribly about all men. She is hopefully just reacting to her situation.

But still - tell her it hurts you when she says "all men suck" and ask her how she thinks about you. I bet it will give her some perspective

63daddy · 2023-05-25T23:43:26+00:00

It’s unfortunate she made bad choices a time or two, but her bad choices don’t mean all men are manipulative.

The reality is overall, men marry down and women marry up. Overall, men provide women, not the reverse. Overall marriage, divorce and child custody laws advantage women and disadvantage men.

You can easily document these things and show them to her. If she refuses to accept documented fact, there’s nothing you can do. If she prefers to hate men and live on her own, that’s also her choice to make.

You can give her accurate information. Whether she accepts it or not is her choice.

TxAthlete42 · 2023-05-26T02:27:02+00:00

She can feel any way she wants to. She has been hurt and this is a way for her to deal with what happened. She will eventually see a different side. Don't interrupt her progress.

Za__guy · 2023-05-26T06:34:45+00:00

I will assume you want to help your sister so I will reply on that base

Your sister didn't had two pschopath by chance. She either search for pschopaths or they searching for her (character traits)

So if I am correct her 3rd and 4th partner will still be the same

Her problem is probably mentally caused by your parents. For example a narcissistic parents (manipulative is extream simplification for him) is cause his childer to be either narcissistic as him. Or have broke weak personality (your sister)

Now when they grow the narcissistic kids are attracted to weak girl to play his authority on. The weak girl is attracted to his assertive. (I am not good with why she get attracted to him part)

If you want to help your sister let her know if she had dogshit childhood and have effect on her personality. If she didn't see that she will keep attracting the same kind of people

IceCorrect · 2023-05-26T18:36:17+00:00

Men who you are atracted to are.

Title	I am dealing with my sister who thinks all men are lazy and manipulative
Author	alinaellis
Upvotes	13
Comments	22
Date	May 25, 2023 6:26 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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