History: - Met girl online. We decided to go FWB. She wanted going out (dating) besides bedroom and I disagreed. - After few hookups I give up and agree to go out. - Lots of affectionate beta shit. I catch some feelings. - FWB insists on being physically exclusive. I agree. - She starts using Tinder and says only dates and nothing physical. I hate this. - I call to reset boundaries she insists on physical exclusivity + dating outside. I said we can do that but she shouldn't expect the other BS outside bed that is going on. On confrontation she says - it is wrong how I don't want us to date outside and have issue with dating amongst us. I said we can workout the dating inside rule . She teased me about falling for her and just vanished later. So kinda waiting for a response.
How I plan to Handle This if she turns the idea down:
-> Withdraw emotionally. - only contact for sex -> No show of affection - no sleepovers, public teasing, cuddling after sex -> Already called up an older FWB to set a fuck so that my brain can function better. -> Start dating other women actively.
I know the standard advice is to hard-next. Frankly, I would like this to work so any advice on what I should do would help. Otherwise just help me get this BS out of my head with solid practical advice.
Thanks.
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