Ok guys, so i have this one thing that i think about all the time. So quite frequently, men will voice their desire for their GF/Wife to not wear revealing clothing and have onlyfans etc right, however i see this turn into women somehow try to claim that we are justifying r*pe somehow ,as commonly some women will post on TikTok or whatever that they got r*ped at XYZ age and this is what i was wearing. I just want to say that I've never seen a man justify someone's r*pe by asking, "What were you wearing?" Instead, online women will complain about flirting/attention received from men that they don't want for whatever reason, thus online they will post something and a man may post "What were you wearing?" and the woman will get all defensive, saying that she doesn't dress like that for the attention of men, instead for herself. I guess that women would rather change the subject and try to say you are justifying r*pe than be called out for wanting attention (which i have no problem if you want attention), or maybe a partner they have does not want them to have Onlyfans (which i think it is reasonable to not want a GF/Wife to have Onlyfans) than accept men's desires or at the very least write them off as misogynistic. Unless you want a GF that does OF then fine but my point is women can easily write something a man would like as sexist/misogynistic etc and gaslight you into believing you are immoral. I know this is long and may seem like a minor problem, but i created this just to see if any other guys think the same thing. To make it 110% clear no matter what you wear r*pe is never justified, But neither is trying to say that men think it is justified when we clearly state that it is not.