So last night I was talking with a girl who is deployed overseas, she has shown interest in me before and even straight up told me. Here we are about a year later, she has a few months left and is now engaged. The guy is 20 and she is 27. I decided ok whatever she's tying herself down, letting this go. Out of nowhere she messages me last night, the following convo went on.

http://i.imgur.com/w4cHzQ9.jpg

This is just a small tidbit of the words exchanged I am trying to spare you reading the whole conversation. I decided to prod further to see what I could get out of her even though she's engaged (shes overseas of course we aren't hooking up). Overall it's almost comical that she mentions she can just keep pushing the wedding date back according to how she feels about it. Admits to having cold feet but is just leading the dude on and even admits she contacted me because she was wanting some type of sexual/skype session and that her fiance was not available because of different time zones. So apparently if you aren't married yet, it's completely ok to continue to get your fix from wherever as long as you're getting something. This is just another reason to add on why I have issues further pursuing for any type of long term relationship, and why plates seems like the way to go. Any thoughts on this? I stopped messaging her the more graphic it got and eventually just went to bed. Another case of, "I could talk to my fiance about how I feel, but instead I'd rather just message this other guy I'm into and talk about my sexual desires and needs I'm not getting."

I admit I could have just ignored her initial contact completely and gone about my evening, but the way she opened and me knowing she is engaged, I was curious to where it would lead.