Everything in life is sexual;

Basically, there are men that women desire to the same degree that men desire women. So women will treat these men as sexual objects.

When women find you physically attractive at your base level, it changes your entire state of being; your mindset changes, your trajectory changes, your existence changes, because you lack the insecurities that plague many unsexy men. That's why most trouble makers in society tend to be the unsexy men. Greedy, violent, overcompensating men are the most common. Contrary to what society says, women desire sexy men as much as if not more than men desire women.

The Sexy Son Hypothesis is the idea that women want to create sons who have the highest reproductive success with women, meaning that these men will struggle less and be less problematic. This will in turn make society better - it will make men more pleasant, and create less sexually frustrated men and women. But because human society requires the pairing off of beta / unsexy males - it has postponed this from ever happening. That's why human society feels broken, because it is; there are too many unsexy men creating unpleasant circumstances.

Birds are ironically both the best example of the Sexy Son Hypothesis as well as one of the few practitioners of monogamy in the animal kingdom - because male birds are basically ALL sexy sons. They were sex selected by female birds (plain looking) for millions of years to be beautiful. And thus monogamy is more pleasant and easy to come across for birds.