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[–]LeftWingMaleAdvocates-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] stickied commentlocked comment (0 children) | Copy Link
Your post was determined to be low effort, and lacked enough context for discussion. At LWMA, we want to encourage topical discussion on male advocacy, not simply outrage and emotional reaction.
Spammy and/or rage bait posts that amount to "look at what X did!" detract from the overall discussion. We ask that all users add a few sentences and ideally a paragraph of their own thoughts (not copy pasted text from somewhere else) for the sake of discussion.
Posting screenshots from social media such as Twitter will almost always be removed as low effort. Within a more substantive discussion post they can be allowed as illustrative examples.
Exposing examples of misandry is more suitable for /r/everydaymisandry.
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[–]Troll4everxdxd 46 points47 points48 points (7 children) | Copy Link
In the post at the ask feminists sub people are dismissing misandry as a whiny response from men when called out from horrible behavior.
Some of them deliberately give the dumbest reasons men use to claim misandry while not acknowledging any others. Men apparently only cry misogyny when they are frustrated about not getting laid, according to them at least.
Others also claim that misandry even if it exists is just an answer to the patriarchy and not a fraction as serious as misogyny.
And others also claim that true misandrists that unjustifiably hate men are very very rare.
Long story short the train of thought goes like this:
Misandry doesn't exist.
Even if it exists, it's not serious and men are being crybabies about it.
Even if it is serious, is justified because patriarchy and misogyny.
Even if it's not justified by patriarchy and misogyny, only one in a billion women are misandrists.
[–]ThunderClap449 23 points24 points25 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The narcissist prayer, yeah?
[–]hotpotato138 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I think all feminists are misandrists. 😆
[–]HelpfulPause8115 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This line of thinking is true for every denial let it be climate change, vaccines, racism, sexism, whatever.
[–]JetChipp 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I wonder what would be their reaction to all the evidence showing how the justice system discriminates men or all the evidence showing discrimination against male victims of sexual abuse (specially the ones that were victimized by women), but I bet they would try to deny all of the studies and call it whining somehow.
No matter how severe you prove misandry to be they either don't understand or straight up don't care, also the pattern of behaviour you described is very similar to this:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.
[–]Troll4everxdxd 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I was making a reference to the narcissistic train of thought with my comment lmao.
[–]Original-Speech-9312[S] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you I really appreciate your comment and I pretty much agree with.
Hovewer for some reason the posts got removed, I think it's because it was crossposted and badly formatted for the sub. I'm about to write it again.
[–]Maffioze 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This is misandry ironically.
[–]Randomrddtname 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah i saw that and it always stresses ne out when people think misandry is always meant to be extreme as if we're talking comparing the heights of misandry to the heights of misogyny. There's plenty of easy to find examples of misandry;
Invalidating misandry in and of itself is one of them;
Non-preference related heightism;
Invalidating a man's sexual abuse;
Incel/femcel subs like female dating strategy.
The best course of action would not have to compare the two but more so talk about misogyny on its own because that would have made sense for a feminist sub
[–]Langland88 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Considering that I saw a Feminist user say that Misandry is justified on the Anti Misandry reddit, I say yes it is just as much as bad.
[–]JetChipp 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed, it all comes down to this in the end:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.
Even if you by some miracle menage to convince them that it is very real they will just say that the men being discriminated for being born on the wrong gender deserve to be discriminated, that's why I think we should treat these people like maggots and scum of the earth that they really are.
[–]Several_Sock_4791 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Huh the post was removed for touching on a topic already spoken about in the last 24hours 😅 oh that's bs I looked over all their post in the Last 24hours also they deleted their account. Damn I missed seeing the original thing.
[–]amakusa360 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link