Would you be in a relationship where your partner settled for you?

BaOrga · 2023-09-17T17:24:17+00:00

I personally wouldn't because of the whole dead bedrooms, cuck and/or beta bucks shit seems very likely if they're settling for me. Sounds worse than being a inkboy

Ok_Cake7513 · 2023-09-17T19:02:13+00:00

Being settled for is a recipe for disaster. No thank you.

Crafty-Interest1336 · 2023-09-17T17:43:18+00:00

I could not imagine a worse future than being married and my partner not caring about me because she doesn't find me attractive.

Allowing yourself to be settled for is just admitting you have no presence in your own life so you need to live for someone else.

I'd rather be alone than surrounded and feeling lonely

EverVigilant1 · 2023-09-17T18:22:20+00:00

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-09-17T19:08:20+00:00

Never.

bruhminer · 2023-09-17T20:57:15+00:00

What do you mean, everyone settles for what they can get at all times.

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-09-17T21:46:09+00:00

absolutely not

uselessloner123 · 2023-09-17T19:00:54+00:00

There are two different types of settling.

1) Settling with contentment: This is where a girl makes an honest assessment of herself and actively pursues guys who she thinks are within her league and she’s happy to be with them. She isn’t focused or chasing on Chad. This is rare but I’ve seen it a few times. The most common I’ve seen is a very tall woman going for a shorter guy and both are in their primes (no AF/BB). These women are genuinely attracted to their partner and vice versa

2) Settling with resentment: Usually Some variation of AF/BB. Such women are easy to detect by how they treat and love Chad compared to the average guy. The beta will pay his whole life for the sins of Chad. These woman have had some sexual encounter with Chad that has damaged them. Even the “virgin girls” have had it but use some technical loopholes to tell you they are a virgin. Avoid. Run for the hills.

Settling with contentment is the mature adult way to approach relationships (let’s face it we all had some stupid dream or another as a child), but it’s getting harder to find such women. I’d be more than happy to enter a relationship where a woman settled with contentment, because I myself am very likely settling with contentment in some way or another.

Settling with resentment? Never. Being an incel would be better honestly and that’s saying something

vengeful_alliyou · 2023-09-17T17:54:43+00:00

It could be a guy's best option as long as he doesn't get married

Bright_Citron_6013 · 2023-09-17T17:47:56+00:00

Been there once.

Didn't discover that she felt she was settling until she told me about 6 months in.

Tried to persevere for a while, but couldn't do it. She started to behave in a disrespectful manner and was clearly resentful of being with someone whom she viewed as "beneath her".

BoogersAndSugar · 2023-09-18T00:38:28+00:00

Absolutely not! Anything short of "Chad" attraction can't be trusted for commitment. Once you've had a relationship with someone whose attraction to you is legitimate, you'll never look at "normal" relationships the same way again, nor all the drama and other baggage that comes with those.

MrBrittle · 2023-09-18T05:22:33+00:00

No. A good relationship is the only thing better than being single for me. A woman like that wouldn't be able to give me a good relationship

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-09-18T14:26:45+00:00

The vast majority of women would rather remain single than settle for anything below chad

Title	Would you be in a relationship where your partner settled for you?
Author	BaOrga
Upvotes	5
Comments	20
Date	September 17, 2023 5:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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