I'm curious if there is a sub for men who actually are having at least a pretty good time in the dating world.

I remember when I was a freshman in college, one of my best male friends fell in love with one of our best female friends on the same dorm floor and dated and next thing i know, some years after college, I was dancing drunk to Beyonce's "Love On Top" at their wedding at the W in Chicago. Good for them.

But back in college, he would act to the rest of us, who were still just dating around, like he was an expert on women. His logic was that he was the best at the game because he had won the game. That didn't seem logical to me. He locked down the first pretty blonde he laid eyes on in an environment that put them literally next door—you wouldn't say a lotto winner was the best at gambling.

So I'm not really interested in a slew of happy love stories from guys who haven't needed to leave the house to get laid in 5+ years, as personally happy as I am for those involved. I'm just looking for discussions and perspectives from men who aren't always you guys. No diss to you guys—this is interesting but also kind of one-note and bleak.

And before you say guys like that don't use reddit, I use reddit. And I've seen enough comments, even here, from men who at least claim to be moderately-to-exceptionally successful with women.

Where do they go to talk about their lives?