So I (M20) was a former fat kid and one thing I realized is that I did so much better with girls than I do right now. Like when I was fat and didn’t put much effort into my appearance I realize I was a ladies man. Girls would usually talk to me without me having to approach them and they’d stare at me while also playing with their hair and sometimes they’d even eyefuck me and keep in mind that I was fat and didn’t put much effort into my appearance at the time. Years later I worked out and lost the weight and I’m now on the skinny side. I eat healthy and also get a haircut every two weeks , workout almost everyday and do everything to put effort into my appearance. What I realized is girls no longer initiate conversations with me , they no longer stare at me or even eye fuck me like they use to it’s like I’m almost invisible to them and it’s like now if I make wye contact with a girl they look away immediately. What I dont understand is why did I do so much better with girls when I was fat and didn’t put much effort into my appearance but now that im fit and put so much more effort into my appearance im now invisible? Another thing I realize is that when I go weeks without a haircut and take a break from working out and just stop putting in any effort into my appearance all together i have more luck with girls but as soon as I workout everyday and put effort into my appearance it’s like I’m invisible and this gets me confused