My lawyer seems to be playing the offense. She waits until my stbxw brings something to the table & then asks if I'm ok with it. Ive already told her what I wanted. I asked her why she didn't take it to her lawyer first? Get an upper hand? Is anyone else experiencing this? I feel as if I'm reliving my marriage over again. Never REALLY getting what I want, just agreeing to the bare minimum of what I can do without.