Fwb dried up ?

pandfour · 2018-02-07T22:58:12+00:00

We don't have enough info...

You've already bugged her enough, soft next.

redd_reality · 2018-02-08T02:16:13+00:00

Bro your expectations are too high.

Women are fickle, lazy and easily distracted.

As much as your ego would have you believe, you're not that valuable. Why not? Because beta males chase women and alphas never commit.

You wanna know the moment my life got a lot less stressful and happier? It was the same moment I stopped giving a fuck if women rejected me. I stopped getting my hopes up and stopped using their validation and attention as reflections of my self worth.

Remember: Women are fickle, lazy and easily distracted. Treat their loyalty with the same value as you would the attention span of an ADHD diagnosed 5 year old.

aresvlight · 2018-02-07T23:50:43+00:00

Just wait. Only mistake I can see here is you texting her again within too short a time frame. I'd have given it more than a week and made it a phone call.

throwinghthisoneaway · 2018-02-08T02:31:01+00:00

I also would like an answer to this. Its either she wanted a relationship and for you to invest more or youre not valuable and shes getting it somewhere else. I have the same issue i think.

CutLiver · 2018-02-08T02:01:48+00:00

“I had fun, did you have fun?” I nodded and smiled at her and she stormed off “ugh” and said something under her breath

Sounds like a comfort test. I wouldn't soft-next her for that... but now that you have you need to wait it out. She'll probably text you something along the lines "are you mad at me?". All you have to do is reply with something like "Why would you think that? Should I be?". Then she'll say no, you say you've been busy but you want to see her and set up a time/place.

jtmazari · 2018-02-07T23:04:42+00:00

It happens. Would need more information to see what the real problem is. Starting looking for a new fwb or run some dread to adjust her behavior.

jtmazari · 2018-02-08T02:41:07+00:00

Ask her questions about who she is as a person and what she’s into. She’s fwb with you because she’s relying on the bonding chemicals to lure you in, once she realizes it doesn’t work she’s gonna back off. All women are like that their emotions are crazy.

Title	Fwb dried up ?
Author	rayrayray1234
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	February 7, 2018 10:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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