Dear Men Of APD: if you were married, would you sleep with another woman if you know your wife/ gf would NEVER find out and you had the opportunity?

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-10-22T02:10:10+00:00

To cheat defeats the purpose of being in a commitment

Sure-Comedian-347 · 2023-10-22T02:41:19+00:00

Bold of you to assume that I could attract another woman.

uselessloner123 · 2023-10-22T03:17:56+00:00

No.

It’s a matter of trust from both sides. What’s the point of getting married then or being in a closed relationship?

csgrind2023 · 2023-10-22T00:53:15+00:00

No. Im a hopeless romantic so I’d just beat off when we don’t have sex.

Tokimonatakanimekat · 2023-10-22T02:54:59+00:00

No. My honor means loyalty.

Mitago1 · 2023-10-22T05:09:17+00:00

If you were married and truly loved your wife why would you ever sleep with another woman just for a quick dopamine hit, it's not worth it.

elektroncloud · 2023-10-22T00:57:28+00:00

No I wouldn’t be married if I wanted to fuck random women

DonttouchmyPlumbus · 2023-10-22T01:45:48+00:00

Even though I’m a terrible hypocrite and amoral I still always make the effort to keep promises. Because whats the point otherwise. If I can try that then everyone else definitely should.

2023-10-22T01:51:15+00:00

If I doubted my ability to honor the vows, I wouldn't make them. The world doesn't need another lying asshole.

SlutforDirtyFeet · 2023-10-22T02:06:41+00:00

No never .Married women / women already in relationship are a turn off for me

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-10-22T10:01:27+00:00

I wouldnt be in a relationship then. Relationship means to commit

shadowofdoubt13 · 2023-10-22T04:54:40+00:00

My question is why do you need to lie? Are you afraid of her? Are you afraid that she’ll break up with you?

Fofotron_Antoris · 2023-10-22T16:14:45+00:00

Never. Loyalty is the most important trait one can have in a relationship, and I know that when I'm in a relationship I wouldn't even notice other women, even if they came up to me. I respect both my partner, myself, the vows we made and the institution of marriage.

Cheating, whether emotional, physical or even just a kiss, is disgusting and reveals a serious lack of character on the part of the cheater. It also has serious consequences for the Betrayed Partner, sometimes even resulting in PTSD. I would never subject anyone to that, especially the woman I married.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-10-22T21:25:13+00:00

I would just tell my wife in advance. If the new girl is bi, maybe theyll be inti each other too.

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