I packed my life's possessions up, threw stuff in my car and bailed. I can only hope it hurt her a little to come home and find me gone.

I was planning on starting a new life somewhere else and flying back, renting a Uhaul and get my stuff and my cat. But that didn't happen. I spent the next three months moving trying to recreate anything that resembled my old life.

I'm a music producer and basically have a shit-ton of valuable records, gear and equipment. I can't just rent a room somewhere. Three months and three places later, I finally found a space big enough and situation good enough to house my rather large collection of records and studio gear.

Originally I told her I'd be back for my stuff. Three months in, I realized I was paying for my own divorce and woke up and wrote her basically demanding she pay for, and send my stuff.

We have no money ties and no kids. It's going to be a no-fault divorce, but seeing as she cheated and dumped me, I realized I'm not ok with paying money to move myself out of a house and marriage that I never wanted to leave in the first place.

She literally has no case as far as divorce. I did nothing wrong ever. She fell in love and fucked a co-worker. It only took a couple emails to convince her it would be financially better for her to just send my stuff. And after months, that's what's happening.

So tomorrow, living in a new house in a new state, that I don't want to be in(rather just be home with my wife and go to my job etc..) I get my life's possessions back.

It's going to be a day of joy and a day of pain. We tend to talk mainly here about pain and love, but not stuff. Makes sense. We went through hell. But my "stuff" is not replaceable. Nor was I rich enough just to take it all when I moved out.

I won't mention the cat. My baby. I had to leave her behind. But.. Tomorrow I will be reunited with my life's possessions.

Small win perhaps. I would throw it all in the garbage just to be with her. I love her madly. But if I can't be with her and my beloved cat, than at least give me my stuff. I can't even place a value on it, but it's in the tens of thousands.

At any rate, I thought I'd share in case others have had the same logistic problem of possessions.