Hello Gents,

Need any foresight into this situation.

Ex has two 5.5 hour visitations per week. She has no overnights. These are in the current court orders.

The children’s advocate has deemed I should get 100% decision making for both children. 100% parenting time to me for the child she abused, and 50% parenting time for the other one. These recommendations have not been converted into an order as of yet.

She is asking for additional time over Christmas.

If I allowed it, could it be used against me in any way? Could her side say my concerns are not valid because I granted further time, and would it set a bad precedent for my concerns? Could I somehow be held in contempt of the court order?

She is dx’d Bipolar 1 and BPD, so I cannot trust her in any situation.

Informed opinions appreciated.