I Didn't Know a Man Could Be Abused by a Woman

Anti-Scam-Activist · 2024-01-04T00:33:51+00:00

A new study on domestic abuse by the CDC that when only 1 partner is abused over 70-90% is perpetratored by the wife or girlfriend. When it's equal abuse, the majority of the domestic abuse was initiated by the wife or girlfriend. But that number is 5 times more likely to have domestic violence in lesbian relationships than male and female relationships and 10 times more than gay relationships.

The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators.

I can't find the article referenced coach Greg Adams reviewing the study, but here is the prof in the video shown.

https://www.youtube.com/live/DYm-0b3la6k?feature=shared

1hr. 56mins. in.

solemnoak · 2024-01-04T01:31:02+00:00

Well now you know.

DMFan79 · 2024-01-04T10:31:10+00:00

I've experienced both types of abuse, but I must say that psychological one is the worst.

One of my exes stalked me for months after we broke up. She used to send me messages telling me she was going to kill herself if I didn't answer the phone. She waited outside of my place of work and my house, followed me when I was going home or for a walk... She was extremely jealous, I remember her fits of rage when she thought I was looking at another woman. It was extremely embarassing because no matter the place we were in, she just started to yell at me. She asked her family members or friends to call me. I couldn't have a moment of rest without turning off the phone.

My ex wife used to belittle me, telling me I wasn't a man. When I tried to ignore her tantrums she got furious and physical. I remember one time I was cooking, I was stirring a sauce with a wooden spoon and she started to pull it from my hand because I didn't reply to her insults. She kept pulling until the spoon split in two pieces. Another time we were on the car, she was driving. We were arguing and at one point she stopped the car in the middle of the street, opened the trunk, took my work suitcase and threw it on the sidewalk. As soon as I got out to fetch the suitcase, she started the car and left me there...

But the seven years spent fighting to get the custody of my son were undoubtedly the worst time of my life. She made sure to make me miserable hitting me where it hurt the most. I couldn't see or talk with my son and I was constantly harassed by her lawyer. They wrote lies about me, tried to convince the judge I was unfit to spend time with my son and when it wasn't enough, she simply ignored the agreements knowing that nothing could be done about it.

After seven years I managed to get the joint custody. The court granted me two WEs each month, summer and Christmas holidays and set an affordable amount of money for the monthly check.

So, yes, a man can be abused by a woman and society is ok with it.

SgtSplacker · 2024-01-04T22:43:37+00:00

Women are definitely capable of abuse but differently than men. In my experience it always begins with some kind of false accusatory victimization move that leads to more because since you got accused of something you must deserve it then right? So now the gloves come off because you are the villain. No proof or evidence needed.

Past_Study_4913 · 2024-01-04T07:56:39+00:00

I see it everyday women, but its usually mental abuse which id argue is worse, whats a little bump and bruise, not saying either is ok. Just saying i think mental abuse is worse. I see it constantly and its never mentioned, only his behaviour is. I know many many vile cunts irl. Them being physically abused is much much rarer, i rarely see it. If ever.

TryLambda · 2024-01-04T05:11:03+00:00

Getting married is the biggest form of abuse towards a man, as he gets little to no benefits from that arrangement and all the disadvantages when divorced.

RandyLahey944 · 2024-01-05T14:26:28+00:00

Ofcourse they do, but unless you allowed them it’s impossible. So it’s the man mistake.

Title	I Didn't Know a Man Could Be Abused by a Woman
Author	warmy1818
Upvotes	78
Comments	32
Date	January 3, 2024 10:54 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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I can't find the article referenced coach Greg Adams reviewing the study, but here is the prof in the video shown.