How can I be more feminine for my boyfriend?

JohnSupezGamer · 2024-01-28T13:06:46+00:00

Well, you answered the question yourself, the way you can be more feminine is by well... being more feminine, and submissive, listen to him more, respect him more, talk back less, dress to please him, act to please him, be his servant, and he will be your slave.

No-Inevitable-8364 · 2024-01-28T23:25:48+00:00

Being femenine in a relationship means not doing a thing except giving love, knows how to express your emotions /support but also know your worth & don't undervalue yourself with embracing your BOUNDARIES.

Hang_your_halo · 2024-01-29T00:03:43+00:00

I recommend reading Laura Doyle’s The Empowered Wife. Not everything will be applicable since you aren’t married, but you can come away with a lot of good insight and practical tips.

TheBunk_TB · 2024-01-28T19:41:11+00:00

Read and meditate

DramaticAttention391 · 2024-01-29T00:42:31+00:00

1) being vulnerable to him. men loves to take in charge and be heroes so u can always be vulnerable in how u approach ur arguments. for example instead of saying “you dont have time for me or you dont keep me as ur first priority” you can rephrase and say “ i miss you so much and want to be with you more” or saying “ i am not able to get this job done will u teach me how to do it” instead of saying “pls do this or that for me” rephrase ur sentences to give them an impression of you being submissive. 2) never ask him to change himself or nag him with his flaws because it comes off as controlling and he will never change anyway, instead you incorporate all the things u would want to see in him and he will follow by examples. men are literally shadows of women in real lives. they get manipulated by us unconsciously all the time. 3) take care of urself and love urself, look good and practise positive affirmations. this energy will help ur relationship too. u are already feminine u just need to learn how to show it to him.

2024-01-28T21:10:44+00:00

Truthfully, I grew up with a mom who told me I didn’t need a man and a dad who kind of taught me the same thing.

Do you believe this to be true? Do you believe that you need a man or do you believe that you don't need a man?

If you believe that you need a man - try to find every opportunity to need him. Then make sure to express appreciation.

Of course, my father told me to respect men which I do but being taught to be like overly independent has kind of messed with me a bit as I’ve gotten older.

When you say that you respect him, what exactly does this mean?

Recently my boyfriend has been saying that I can be a little bit more masculine than he’d like me to be. He also pointed out some traits in women that he admires and they all seemed more feminine and submissive than the ones I currently possess.

Did he give you any examples?

However, I can be quite argumentative and I like to take charge more than I’d like to admit.

When you catch yourself doing this - apologize.

Try to do something every day, that is the opposite of these traits. Try to be more agreeable and yielding.

What are some ways that I can be more feminine/submissive in my relationship?

Create space for him to fill.

ireallyloveoats · 2024-01-29T00:49:23+00:00

Never break the unforgivable sin: never disrespect your man.

Sassy_brunette6515 · 2024-01-29T21:42:24+00:00

Men don’t like being questioned on every little thing. Pick your battles, if you see him doing something a way you don’t like, maybe let it go. Being encouraging rather than negative and nit picking. Say things like “I really love when you do this” instead of “do you have to do it that way?” Or “why can’t you do it the way I showed you”. Men like light and cheery.. to be honest, most people do. And remember, things don’t have to be an argument all the time. Sometimes you can make a man see your way by being tactful. Ask questions and be genuinely curious, men don’t think the way we do.

Best of luck🙂

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Title: How can I be more feminine for my boyfriend?

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Full text: Here’s some background I’m a 20 year old girl and I have a boyfriend who is also 20 that I’ve been with for 2 years. Truthfully, I grew up with a mom who told me I didn’t need a man and a dad who kind of taught me the same thing. Of course, my father told me to respect men which I do but being taught to be like overly independent has kind of messed with me a bit as I’ve gotten older. Recently my boyfriend has been saying that I can be a little bit more masculine than he’d like me to be. He also pointed out some traits in women that he admires and they all seemed more feminine and submissive than the ones I currently possess. I do believe that I want to be a stay at home mom and we just moved in together so we kind of already adhere to traditional gender roles. However, I can be quite argumentative and I like to take charge more than I’d like to admit. What are some ways that I can be more feminine/submissive in my relationship?

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ElMatriarchacicisbeo · 2024-01-29T13:59:54+00:00

Do the opposite of what you’ve been conditioned to do by feminism, media, and egalitarianism. Educate yourself about historically feminine women/characters albeit keep in mind it’ll take you time to implement what you will have read. You can enrich and fortify certain traits you have and do away with undesirable ones by reading about biblical and traditionally feminine archetypes. Good luck.

Any_Welcome_5745 · 2024-02-04T01:58:03+00:00

I'm sorry but this is idiotic.... Listen to yourself the first... Do you WANT to be more feminine? Do you want to have these outdated traditional gender roles? There is literally nothing wrong with being independent.

Why do you feel the need to change you for your boyfriend? Who in their right mind could possibly say there is something wrong with a woman being too independent?

Title	How can I be more feminine for my boyfriend?
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Date	January 28, 2024 11:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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