I get worried about...

TheGreatSickNasty · 2024-02-06T13:55:28+00:00

Do you think that planning to continue watching porn and committing other sins could cause a problem with your relationship with God? I’d be worried about what God thinks about that.

Also, your future wife should be challenging you to better yourself from what I understand. As a husband you will naturally take on the leadership role, but that hasn’t stopped my wife from using her wisdom to talk sense into me help me in my walk with Christ as well. At times she is right and will stop me from sinning.

Forsaken-Farmer7769 · 2024-02-06T15:28:59+00:00

You’re not truly living for Christ and it’s evident by your post. If you’re truly living for Christ there will no no question for a divorce… use your head man.

plaudite_cives · 2024-02-07T11:50:15+00:00

if you have a prenup with anything different than "in case of divorce, everything goes to charity", it'll be hard sell to real God-loving woman. Because prenup means - "I plan for the end of unendable"

Alpha-Bunny1 · 2024-02-06T11:02:54+00:00

You are committing the sin of thinking "good girls" ie Christians, are different than "bad girls" ( read women who love sex). If you think that way, it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. And no! Women are not more "spiritual" than you, they are more emotional, sure, but do not mistake that for being more in touch with God.

popomonpopo · 2024-02-06T16:37:20+00:00

Pursue the Lord first and foremost, the right woman will come along inshallah.

JULESVERNE161 · 2024-03-06T00:46:27+00:00

Find the woman who isn't hateful of her man, and seeks to fulfill your wishes, then you won't have the desire for these things... Just a word to the wise, though, manipulation from a woman is an instant turn off, and makes you desire the above. It's her breaking the bond instantly, because it's disrespectful of God. It's exactly what God hates. Gender neutral, it doesn't matter if she does it, or you do, it's what God hates. Find the woman who doesn't do that, be the man who is upright, and you should be good to go.

84904809245 · 2024-06-21T12:32:54+00:00

Dont marry for the state, marry for the church only

StaticLineJump · 2024-02-10T03:56:24+00:00

Follow the King, be the best man you can be, keep relentlessly pursue your mission, and be way better than your wife (very important) and everything will be ok. As long as she doesn’t lose respect for you, she won’t leave.

Praexology · 2024-02-19T21:17:39+00:00

Why do you get worried about it?

LWJ748 · 2024-02-09T20:11:56+00:00

Why do we accept porn as borderline infidelity and a divorceable offense when we accept a lot of poor behavior from married Christian women? We have these clear boundaries of what men are and aren't allowed to do within a Christian marriage. Meanwhile it's borderline open on the woman's end. As long as a penis doesn't enter the vagina we'd be "insecure" to question anything modern Christian women do. My wife has a friend she keeps up with in another state. She almost divorced her husband over porn. It wasn't a continuous thing. She just cought him once and he stopped. Meanwhile she listens to audio erotica. She follows celebrity thirst traps on Instagram, she makes lustful posts on FB ever summer Olympics about athletes bodies. It's not like she's an outlier I see similar things from other Christian women. I've even heard Christian sex therapists encourage married Christian women to use vibrators on themselves while listening to audio porn.

Title	I get worried about...
Author	RarePositiveRedditor
Upvotes	0
Comments	39
Date	February 6, 2024 10:37 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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