I’d say I’ve handled everything really well until last weekend when she just stopped coming home overnight. For some reason it just ripped my heart out and left me in this funk. Just found it super disrespectful and has me all over the place. I also have to be nice because I want this settlement agreement signed that’ll allow me to retire at 50. Have 2 boys and they are the ones that showed me proof of the affair while on her phone so that is its own ball of wax. She’s been overly nice and wants to be friendly but that’s going to take a while for me. My friends and family have been great, I’ll have 2 separate apartments that I can live in pretty much rent free. SA will allow me to keep pension, 50/50 custody, deferred compensation, no maintenance about 100k stocks and a business with unknown value. In return I gave my dream house with large in ground pool worth about 450k and uncontested custodial rights. She’s on a bunch of mood disorder medications so I always knew this day was coming and subconsciously wanted it to. Hoping this SA gets signed since it keeps the kids in the same school system and doesn’t completely destroy me. Hopefully I’ll have more upbeat posts in the future but just feeling beat down this week.