Club/Bar Game Tips

LevelEcho463 · 2022-10-23T00:20:00+00:00

Make her earn a drink, don’t just buy someone it because they starter a 30 second conversation with you. Secondly get water between drinks, either a lime or lemon this way it looks like you got a vodka. Secondly drink your real drinks slow QBs double down on the water in between them.

wolfbee16 · 2022-10-23T03:56:18+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/akftv6/from_afraid_to_look_a_girl_in_the_eye_to_getting/

Everything I learned about bar/club game when I was in college. I slept with over 60 girls that year too. It’s not hard, just something to practice and build upon your mishaps.

I never buy a girl a drink unless she REALLY impresses me, then I will. I think what works for me is treating the girl like a bro. I call girls “bro” and “dude” all the time, because that’s how I see them. Sex never crosses my mind until it’s abundantly clear she’s DTF. Go out to have fun, not to get laid.

BestAdviceYouCanHave · 2022-10-23T11:20:14+00:00

I never buy drinks just to know a girl. I buy them drinks because it’s already going well and they’re nice 👌🏻

After talking to her for a bit and things are going well and she’s laughing and finishing up her own drink, that’s when I either tell her to follow me to the bar so I can top her up because I noticed her cup and mine is empty, or if a waiter passes by I’ll order myself one and point to her empty glass and say “what were you drinking? I’ll get this one..” slide the cash into the waiters hand and whisper to him/her to keep the the tip and continue my conversation with her and poke fun at her drink of choice or how slow she’s drinking like she’s intending to hold that warmed up glass till the end of the night. Maybe introduce her to a different drink based on what she’s already drinking. Either impress her with my suggestion or let her make fun of my terrible choice of drink for her.

I sometimes spruce it up by ordering for both of us the most fanciful girly drink for both of us and drink with a pinky up. Keep it fun.

If the night ends with just the both of you together at one side with a tray of shots better start asking for lots of water before you get too drunk and can’t get it up. 🫣

recyclablebanthas · 2022-10-23T02:25:28+00:00

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I’m tired and getting broke of buys drinks to girls who have interest.

Yeah, you don't need to buy drinks for girls.

The truth is that whichever way you go about it, it will determine what kind of women you attract.

Some will be turned off by a guy trying to buy them drinks.
Some will be turned off if you don't buy them drinks.

So the question you have to ask yourself is, what kind of person do you want to attract?

2

What tips/advice do you bars/clubs for an avg looking dude who gets numbers but nothing beyond that happens.

Matching the culture of a place will help you. Some common sense examples:

When you go to the library, if you go in with your phone volume on high, playing a YouTube video or talking loudly to someone next to you, you're not going to stand out in a bad way. Staying within the culture means that you are adhering to noise level rules and you're there to study or find a book, etc.
If you go to a LAN party, you'll typically bring your own computer, join in games, etc. What you won't do is come without a computer, and walk around trying to start conversations with people who are in the middle of matches.

As for how this applies to a club:

It's built around loud music and dancing. It's high energy.
The loud music means it's not optimal for having a complicated conversation with people. Verbally, a club is a simple place. Your communications will often be focused on nonverbal means if you intend to have fun with it.
It's also going to go better for you if you assimilate yourself into the dance floor. If you don't like dancing, then stick to bars.
If you are feeling low energy and you can't get into a high energy mindset at the club, sometimes it's best to pull the plug and go home. Do whatever you can to get yourself hyped up before you get to a club.

Fate-in-haze · 2022-10-23T00:40:44+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson.

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-10-22T23:52:54+00:00

Rule number one...be good looking or tall (preferably both) or at least have a good size.

Title	Club/Bar Game Tips
Author	alrightimetolearn
Upvotes	12
Comments	17
Date	October 22, 2022 11:51 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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