So I have seen a few posts pop up from dudes ranting about how they wish they were tall and white and how easy tall and white guys have it and all. Well, I wanted to shed some light on this as an Indian guy. I have known a number of Asian, Indian, Black, and Middle Eastern men who complained about how easy white men supposedly had it and how tough it is for them because of their race. The races I most commonly see complaining are Asian and Indian men. So do you blame prejudice or what?

Something I noticed in hanging out with men that complained about race.

I worked with and was friends with Asian and Indian men that believed their race was stopping them from getting hot girls. I'd say in 80% of the cases, there were clear and obvious reasons as to why these guys struggled. Appearance wise, most were out of shape and just unattractive dudes that did not care for their appearance. A lot of these men were either fat or pencil-stick skinny with very poor style. Yeah you are dealt the genetics you are but these men did themselves no favors when it comes to women.

Digging in, almost ALL of these men were toxic and weak.

Constantly feeling sorry for themselves, victim's mindset, feeling entitled to women, and all of the classic personality traits of a toxic person. Hanging out around these men drained me emotionally and mentally, my game even suffered by having drinks with them. Every weekend or day it was the constant complaining about women, about society, and about how life is fucked despite their six-figure jobs and nice pads. As a guy, I felt drained by these men, how do you think women feel?.

The biggest takeaway you should have is that there are clear and obvious holes in your game, appearance, and vibe that you are woefully unaware of.

I'll concede that yes, race does matter. Yes, women do hate certain races. Yes, there are prejudiced and racist women out there.

If your immediate reaction was "uh huh, see data here proves I have a 40.5% less chance of getting laid than a white man!", you deserve to struggle as you are. All you are doing is looking to find one excuse after another to explain away your failure rather than manning the fuck up and taking some ownership. If all you do is cling to data and statistics as a way to explain how you suck with women, you deserve the lifetime of loneliness and misery ahead of you.

All too many guys use the race card to cover up for the fact that they have a poor appearance, toxic personality traits that need fixing, and such a poor vibe that sends women running. The post here is not feel good nonsense, in fact, it's kind of the opposite. You are probably ugly as fuck on the outside (due to not caring for your appearance) and weak as hell on the inside which is what is leading to your failure. You are just using the race card as an excuse to rationalize your failures because you are too scared to admit to yourself that you are ugly and weak.

If it hurt your feelings, too bad.

You can either man up and put the work in on self-improvement (believe me, you need it!) or you can continue to bitch on reddit and cling to dating studies as an excuse for why you are an unloveable toxic piece of crap.