I really like to go to nightclubs and dance, and I’m a pretty good dancer and have ton of confidence while I’m dancing. I heard more than once from girls that danced with me in nightclubs that they are really like my moves.

But, a situation I find myself experiencing a lot, is that when I notice a group of girls (2 or more) dancing, and for some reason I think to myself that it would be so great to dance with them (I see attractive girls or just good vibes) I’m having a hard time to get “accepted” to their circle. If I’m just dance near them and get closer a bit by bit until I’m inside it feels like I’m sneaking my way in and it feels creepy, the girls sometimes start to make their circle a bit denser to make it harder to get in, it feels like there has to be a better way.

Advice that I heard a lot in the pickup community is “have fun and self amuse yourself and they will come to you” but I don’t see it ever happening, girls just keep dancing with their friends. In the other, when I try approaching girls in the dancefloor and just say something random it doesn’t that successful for me either I’m just not comfortable with starting a conversation in the middle of a dance floor so after approaching the girls just give me a weird look while I’m dancing with them.

Feeling like I’m missing something, I would like to hear some advice on how I can smoothly get inside those circles:)